Circle education is the influence of people in children's interpersonal relationships, such as children's friends, or children's idols and so on.
As a teacher, I often meet such a kind of children:
School education is not bad. Basically, parents provide their children with the best school education resources, and family education is not bad. There is no shortage of family education, which is the most basic demand at ordinary times. Family education and school education are better, but children always have many bad behavior habits.
Many times, the reason is the circle that children come into contact with, and the quality of this circle has seriously affected children.
A child, if the classmates around him don't like studying, or even play games every day, then it is too difficult for you to let your child study hard every day and not touch the mobile phone at ordinary times.
Many people can study hard in front of you, some don't touch their mobile phones, but they can't do it without you. What's more, as soon as I get home, I will start quarreling with my parents and seriously indulge in playing mobile phones.
For children, there is no way to judge whether many things are correct or not. They only know that others have done it and they can do it themselves. They are also afraid that others will be isolated if they don't follow, and they will become a friendless person.
Therefore, for circle education, parents need to do the following:
The first thing: let children distinguish between good and bad things.
Many times, children do things by imitating the people around them, and when they see others doing it, they feel that they can do it. Therefore, in this case, parents should not forcibly stop it. They need to let their children know what is good for them and what is not good for them, and also help them form their own values.
The second thing: let children learn to choose friends.
Furthermore, parents must teach their children to choose high-quality friends.