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How to guide children to tell the truth correctly
Honesty in the eyes of adults, children can not understand, and will not understand. Therefore, we should not blindly accuse it of being a "lie", but should listen to the facts told by children.

Listen to the facts told by the children.

If what the child said is not true, we should not be too anxious to judge that what he said is a "lie" at this time. Let's think about it from the perspective of children. Is there a reason for him to say so?

Understand the child's point of view

If a child fabricates a lie in order to escape the responsibility of one thing, similarly, our parents should not rush to expose him, let alone punish him, give him some time and space to concentrate, and then we will guide him correctly after the whole thing is completed, instead of blaming him from the beginning, which will lead to missing the education time.

Create a warm family environment

We should create a warm family environment for our children, and make him feel that even if he makes a mistake and tells the truth, he is still a child, so that he is more willing to be an honest child. If telling the truth is not good, covering up the facts can make him escape from nature without becoming honest.

Reflect on your own problems

If we find that children often "lie", our parents should reflect on it. Is it because we are too strict with our children that they are afraid of you, or do children see our parents' own problems and think it is right to lie? Make things clear first, and then criticize the children's problems.