Parents or other guardians cultivate, guide and influence minors' moral quality, physical quality, life skills, cultural accomplishment and behavior habits, so as to promote their comprehensive and healthy growth.
The Law on the Promotion of Family Education clearly stipulates: "Family education refers to the cultivation, guidance and influence of parents or other guardians on minors' moral quality, physical quality, life skills, cultural accomplishment and behavior habits in order to promote their all-round and healthy growth."
Family education is not one-way education for children by parents or other guardians, but mutual education among family members. Parents are children's first teachers, and their influence on children is subtle. If parents can set an example for their children, it is the best family education. After all, the power of example is infinite.
Contents of Family Education Promotion Law
The Law on the Promotion of Family Education stipulates the ways and means of family education, including individual rearing, joint participation, teaching with a camera, respecting differences, equal communication and mutual promotion.
These contents are very specific. Parents are required to strengthen parent-child companionship and effective companionship, and give full play to the role of both parents. Husband and wife should form a joint force, educate each other in daily life, start from dribs and drabs, and start from small things. They should pay more attention to their words and deeds, respect, understand and encourage their children, and parents should learn from their children with an open mind and grow together with them.
Forbidden area of family education
Condescending: Parents always think that they have crossed more bridges than their children, despise their children, and always think that they are right and dominate their children. This kind of "high above" discipline is hard to convince children. Especially when criticizing children's mistakes, parents' condescending reprimand makes children feel unequal and difficult to balance. The result of "verbal dissatisfaction" can only be half the effort.
For example, I often tell my children that "you will be beaten if you do this" and "if you don't listen, you have to listen" and so on. "