? Children are born with a blank sheet of paper, which needs parents and teachers to outline slowly to help them establish a correct outlook on life and values. Parents are children's first teachers and parents are children's role models. How can parents improve their own quality and do a good job in family education? The three mirrors in education: magnifying glass, reducing mirror and peeping mirror are all very good tools. Parents with high emotional intelligence must make good use of these three mirrors.

First: magnifying glass: make good use of magnifying glass to find the advantages of children, enlarge the advantages, and praise the children as soon as they perform well. Is strengthening, thus improving children's self-esteem and sense of accomplishment.

The second miniature mirror: children will inevitably do something wrong when they grow up. We should make good use of the miniature mirror, accept, dilute or ignore this shortcoming, especially avoid negative reinforcement, optimize our own language and improve the positive reinforcement language.

The third telescope: always start with the end, take a long-term view of children's education, take children's lifelong growth and development as the core, set phased goals for education, not be formatted by exam-oriented education, let go of anxiety and utilitarian mentality, cultivate children with your heart, take them to feel life, water them with your heart, and wait for flowers to bloom.

Therefore, when I get along with children, I need to use a magnifying glass better, encourage and praise more; Use a magnifying glass, less criticism, less verbosity; Using binoculars well is not for cultivating children with high scores, but for their lifelong growth. Don't worry and struggle, because growth is more important than success.