Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, the pressure is increasing day by day, whether it is parents or children. You can often see from the news that children commit suicide by jumping off a building with poor results in the college entrance examination, and they will die if they have conflicts with their classmates. At the same time, they can't help asking, how are the children now? In fact, the reason why children have such a reaction is inseparable from the education of parents. Pay attention to the three stages of children's growth process, guide them correctly, and make children become a positive person.

0-6 years old is the first stage, so we should pay attention to the cultivation of emotion and character. A happy childhood affects a person's life, and an unfortunate childhood needs a lifetime to heal. Accurately speaking, this stage can also be divided into two small stages:

0-3 years old: Mother is the first step for children to know the world. Through the warm embrace of the mother, children can have a sense of trust in the world and give them a safe environment full of love, so they should be pampered at this time.

3-6 years old: This period pays attention to the cultivation of children's character. It is inevitable for children to cry in order to get what they want. As parents, they should stand up against him and train their children to get what they want in the right way. At the same time, avoiding the education of widowhood, the companionship of parents in childhood will make children feel safe and have a positive understanding of the world.

6- 12 years old is the second stage. At this stage, children have begun to enter the campus. As parents, we should find out their children's specialties and give them correct guidance. Examination results do not tell whether their children are excellent or not. The reason why some children commit suicide when their exam results are not ideal is to lead the children to think that only the results can prove everything.

Take more children to feel the outside world, you can travel, or you can tell them local customs and historical stories while enjoying the scenic spots of the motherland, which can not only enrich their experiences, but also set an example for them through these historical celebrities;

Or take children to participate in activities of interest after school, such as calligraphy, dancing, singing, etc. , but also exercised their ability to cope with competition; Finding children's bright spots and building children's self-confidence can make children enthusiastic about learning and improve their attention.

12- 18 years old is the third stage. At this stage, children are just in adolescence, and they will have more self-awareness and more ideas. In order to prove that he is no longer a child, there will be some rebellious psychology. At this time, parents will find that the obedient child seems to be gone, start to contradict their elders, start to go home late, and even feel that the child's temper has become grumpy. Its implementation stage is normal.

As parents, we should fully respect our children. For the problems that children are facing, parents can put forward some solutions and possible consequences, so that children can make their own choices.

In short, cultivating emotion and character at the age of 0-6 is the keynote of life, so it is the most headache stage for parents; Secondly, in the primary school stage, 6- 12 years old, we should cultivate our own ability and improve our concentration to face the next junior high school, high school and university study; 12- 18-year-old children should be properly adjusted during adolescence, and parents need to guide and adjust according to their actual situation.