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Mr. Tang's family has two children. Although Mr. Tang has a happy family, he also expressed his sadness in educating his children. Especially in front of a clever and sensible daughter, this son is even more naughty.

In China's family, the daughter seems to grow up relatively fast, while the boy's rational growth stage seems to be slow.

Mr. Tang said that sons and daughters who go to primary school have different report cards, and the difference will be more obvious. In the process of receiving compulsory education, my son's grades always seem to fall far behind, but I am relieved to mention my daughter's grades.

So, is this because of the intelligence difference between boys and girls, or because of the development speed of boys and girls?

This is a common reason why boys grow slower than girls.

As mentioned in biological knowledge, the brain development structure of boys is different from that of girls, especially the left brain development of boys is slower than that of the right brain. The left and right brains are responsible for different areas. The left brain is mainly responsible for thinking, usually so-called logical ability analysis, expression, data collation and language organization, while the right brain is responsible for artistic abilities, such as imagination and creativity. The brains of boys and girls are upside down. Girls develop their left brain first, while boys develop their right brain first.

Therefore, in childhood, boys encounter obstacles in learning, but their imagination is relatively rich. Although girls are one step ahead in grades, their views on the future are still limited.

So it is impossible to describe boys or girls as smart or stupid at any time. Every baby has a certain stage of growth.

So, how should parents with boys deal with the boy's brain development?

Give understanding and encourage exploration.

Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and focusing on pertinence. Because boys are more inclined to imagine, this is also the first step that parents understand before their children are 7 years old, giving them the motivation to encourage love and let them explore their children's curiosity.

Because the boy's age is 7 to 10, the left brain will begin to develop slowly. Therefore, before this stage, parents should tolerate boys' playfulness. When they ask themselves questions that adults cannot answer, they should also be encouraged to explore the unknown world. It is necessary for parents to give their children more encouragement when their grades are far behind other students.

Enhance self-confidence and be brave in development.

Children also need to gain a sense of identity. Even if they don't do well in school, they have rich imagination and creativity in other aspects. At this time, they can only develop their right brain through games. This intelligence also proves that boys also have their own good side.

At this stage, parents can actively encourage boys' behavior, and even often tell them that when they behave well, they will have more confidence and courage to face the unknown.

More communication brings more development.

The companionship of parents in childhood is particularly important. Tang said that the baby boy at home was several months later than his daughter. In the process of waiting for the son to speak, the whole family was particularly anxious about the growth speed of the child, so the whole family decided to give the child more company. After work, Mr. Tang often chooses to communicate with children more, share interesting things in life with children, increase the time of playing games, and make the company of parents an indispensable factor for his son's growth.

Now Mr. Tang's son is ten years old. Although his sister's grades were not excellent in the past, his grades are not too bad now, whether playing games or interpersonal communication, or even at school.

Be patient parents and don't oppress them.

In the process of children's growth, the most terrible thing is that parents are uncertain about themselves. When impatient parents appear in the process of children's growth, the influence on children must be negative.

Mr. Tang recalled the life of his son 10 years old: at that time, his son spoke later than his sister. Even if the family communicates with their son, they get less feedback than their daughter's actions and reactions, but the whole family is willing to talk to their son. Please wait patiently as you grow up. Also actively participate. My sister often accompanies my brother to learn more knowledge. As they grow up, boys' learning ability is improving day by day.

It can be seen that the growth of boys in a relaxed and free environment is the best condition for brain development.