As two independent individuals, husband and wife have different ideas, so when they form a family, they may have different ideas in different aspects. This difference is manifested in all aspects of life, such as the location of the house, such as the amount of consumption, but the most important concept between the two is the education of children. If two people have differences, once they are not handled properly, it may endanger the growth and development of children. So in marriage, what should I do if two people's educational ideas are inconsistent?

(1) Adhere to the principle that whoever starts first will teach first.

Whoever strikes first here does not represent a violent conflict between two people, nor does it represent corporal punishment of children. It refers to who starts a certain aspect of education first, so this aspect of the problem should be given to this person first. The advantage of this is that children will not be impacted by two different educational concepts, and it is good for children's development to be influenced by only one concept in this matter.

(2) When you have doubts about the other half's concept of educating children, don't bring it up in front of the children.

This is to prevent the authority of parents from being broken in children's minds, because children often follow their parents' example when they don't understand anything. If the other half accuses him of wrong educational ideas in the process of educating children, it may lead children to think that the other half's educational direction is wrong in their hearts, so that the authority of parents can not be guaranteed.

(3) Educate children not to get angry when they have differences.

If two people are angry, neither of them will teach their children a lesson, and it is their children who will suffer in the end. Therefore, educate children not to be emotional, and two people must discuss education issues calmly.

Parents are the best teachers for children, so even if there are differences in educating children, don't show them in front of them. It can be solved privately by two people afterwards, which is good for the development of children.