Envy is envy, and reality is reality. Although we envy the western liberal educational and cultural ideas, the reality is that we are in a highly competitive educational environment, so in order not to let our children fall behind, we will enroll them in various remedial classes.

First, the needs of reality. Due to the uneven distribution of educational resources, the competition for children to enter colleges and universities is fierce. In order to be admitted to an ideal school, children have to accept the specific requirements of these superior schools and enroll in corresponding remedial classes to meet the requirements of these schools. Olympiad and various artistic specialties are the products of these schools' requirements, which is a great environmental factor.

Of course, there are also some parents who blindly follow the trend and see friends around them signing up for remedial classes for their children and also signing up for their children. Coupled with the marketing strategies of some training institutions, the atmosphere of enrolling children in cram schools is getting worse.

The second is personal interests and planning. Some children themselves are really interested in some training and learning, and they are also willing to learn. There are also some parents who have planned their children's future, thus helping their children to enroll in the corresponding remedial classes.

The third is the anxiety of parents. Some parents are not well educated, but our culture in China has always advocated education. These parents especially hope that their children can receive a better education, but they don't understand, so they are helpless and anxious. So they give the cram school to the training teacher so that the children can receive a better education.

In fact, there is no right or wrong to enroll in cram school. We can choose the appropriate cram school to study according to the children's own situation. But there must be a clear and correct learning purpose, and children's time and energy arrangements should be considered. Otherwise, too many remedial classes will only make children busy and unable to study effectively. By my side, I see that some children are almost full every day because they make up too many lessons. As a result, I feel that these children are dull and no longer lively and cheerful.