When I was a child, everyone was like a blank sheet of paper, with unlimited space and possibilities, but it was also easy to take detours. Therefore, parents must guide in time and get used to it from an early age.
1. Start with the daily chores of eating and sleeping.
There is a saying in the ancients, don't do small things with kindness. Good habits need to be cultivated from the little things around us and emphasized repeatedly until they take root in the subconscious.
2. Lead by example and set an example for children.
Parents are the mentor of the baby's life, and most of the baby's behaviors germinate from imitating parents. Therefore, as an adult, we must use stricter requirements to restrain ourselves, and we must never say one thing and do another.
3. Pay attention to the method used, not just rough.
The theory that a dutiful son is born under a stick is no longer suitable for the rapid development of civilization today, and scientific parenting is the long-term solution. Teaching truth through games may be more conducive to children's acceptance. Children's understanding ability is limited, and it is difficult to digest those empty concepts, so learning to be persuasive is the key. In addition, parents must praise their children more and affirm their every progress. Your praise is their greatest motivation. Simple and rude will only push children's good habits further and further.
4. stick to it.
It takes some time to form a good behavior as accumulation and precipitation. Through constant practice and study, you can integrate into life without deliberate efforts over time.
5. Pay attention to cooperate with kindergarten teachers.
It is impossible to know what children are doing in kindergarten in real time, so you should always communicate with the class teacher, keep abreast of the children's current situation, and correct the problems quickly after finding them. There are countless children in kindergarten teachers, and there must be valuable experience to share with you.
What are the common bad behaviors of babies?
It is very common for babies to have bad behaviors, because children's concept of right and wrong is still being established, and it is easy to acquire some bad habits invisibly. For example, hitting people, losing temper, inattention, eating badly, rebellious mood and so on. , are common bad behaviors of babies. How should mom and dad deal with these behaviors?
Babies love to hit people since childhood.
Specific performance: when playing with other children or getting along normally, if something goes wrong, they will hit people, even close adults, showing aggression.
Coping strategy: It is normal for children to have aggressive behavior. Once they find out, Ma Bao must immediately correct it and tell them clearly that this is wrong and is not allowed for any reason. Ma Bao can make some punishment system, once the baby fouls, it will be implemented immediately. On the one hand, it can calm them down gradually, on the other hand, it can give them a chance to reflect on themselves. If their performance improves, don't forget to praise them in time.
Babies often lose their temper.
Specific performance: parents will lose their temper if they don't buy snacks they want to eat, and they will be furious if they want to watch more during nap time. When they can't realize their wishes, they will vent their anger by losing their temper in an attempt to get an opportunity for adults to change their minds.
Solution: First of all, you should restrain your emotions, try to understand why the baby is angry, and what ideas you have, and adopt them reasonably, but you must tell them that this form of losing your temper is wrong and will make you feel troubled and angry. Of course, unreasonable wishes must refuse to promise, and let the baby know that this excessive behavior will not have any effect. If possible, take the children to a space where you are alone and have a peaceful and equal dialogue.
The baby can't concentrate.
Specific performance: Looking around in class, listening to my mother's speech, my thoughts flew to the TV, but I was always thinking about playing games when I was writing my homework, so I was absent-minded. These behaviors are caused by insufficient concentration.
Solution: According to a survey, many babies who can't concentrate in kindergarten class are particularly fascinated by TV, so it's best for mothers to control it. If you want your baby to concentrate, you must stimulate their interest in people and things and find a point where they can devote themselves wholeheartedly. When the baby is engaged in something, try to create a quiet atmosphere, eliminate potential distractions, and let them have no chance to be distracted.
The baby doesn't eat well.
Specific performance: when it comes to eating time, he is disgusted, crying, or unwilling to stay in the children's seat or small table to eat, and the food fed by his mother is not carefully chewed and vomited.
Solution: At present, many children have to be coaxed to eat by adults, or have to be trained severely before eating. Neither of these extreme ways is desirable. You should try to let the baby do it by himself as early as possible, sit at the table and eat like an adult, and let them know that this is not a parent-child game. If your baby likes snacks very much, then be sure to limit their abnormal food intake during three meals. Treat very naughty and stubborn children, even if they are hungry once or twice, let them know that their parents have a bottom line.
The baby is very rebellious.
Specific performance: when the child is asked to do his homework, he plays the game machine and asks him to say hello to the old man, but he pretends not to hear or just runs away. In the rebellious period, as long as it is the will of parents, the baby will not listen, whether right or wrong or willing.
Solution: After children have some sense of self-esteem, they will want to be independent, instead of living under the control of their parents and opposing everything. What adults should do is to fully understand and talk to them less with negative sentences. At the same time, respect the baby's opinion on some issues that do not touch the principle. For example, what color cotton-padded jacket to wear in cold weather is entirely up to them. Encourage them to tell the reasons for disobedience, teach them to think, and let them know that reasoning is more effective than radical treason.