Family education should not be limited to traditional knowledge transmission, but should be re-planned and laid out around four vital learning abilities. This paper will discuss these four abilities in depth to help parents better guide their children's growth.

learning ability

Teaching children how to learn is not only the accumulation of knowledge, but also the mastery of effective cognitive means and the cultivation of autonomous learning ability.

service ability

Children should have the ability to work in various environments, including professional skills, facing difficulties, solving problems, reasonable organization and management, and taking risks.

Interpersonal skills

Guide children to understand and respect others, learn to put themselves in their shoes, establish friendly relations with people around them, eliminate prejudice and hostility, and work together to achieve common goals and plans.

Basic capacity

Children need to master some basic abilities, including but not limited to independent thinking, distinguishing right from wrong, rich imagination, good expression and emotional control, and excellent social skills.