We can often see some children shouting in public places, which affects the normal activities of others. But there are also some children who look gentle and cultured by observing different scenes and whispering in places that should be quiet. Why can some children learn to control their own volume expression, while others are completely ignorant of the surrounding environment, and selfish owners make noise? This is mainly due to the educational differences between parents on their children's volume expression ability. Educated children know how to control their own volume reasonably. Therefore, if children want to be gentle and educated, they should pay attention to the cultivation of "volume expression".
It is impolite for children to talk loudly.
Liang Shiqiu once said: "It is instinctive for a person to speak loudly, and it is civilized to speak carefully." The level of a person's speaking volume can reflect his literacy and education from the side. Children always talk loudly, which is really a sign of bad manners.
Those educated children will adjust the volume according to the change of the scene. In a quiet place, you will lower the volume and try to avoid disturbing others, which is very gentle and elegant. Where you should speak loudly, you can raise the volume appropriately, which can reflect your personality and aura. This kind of child who knows how to adjust the volume really has a high degree of education and accomplishment.
But some children can't control the volume of their speech. Even though parents have been educating them, they always don't know how loud they should use in any occasion, so children may disturb others as soon as they speak. Parents have the responsibility to teach their children how to control their own volume properly, otherwise their children will be regarded as uneducated as soon as they go out. Even if it is a child's nature to like noise, parents should learn to cultivate their children's ability to control the volume, let them know how to respect others, narrow the distance with others, and make them appear gentle and educated.
Language development ability is an essential quality for excellent children.
As the main means of communication between people, language is an important bridge of interpersonal communication. The famous educator Suhomlinski once said: "Language is the foundation of intellectual development and the treasure house of all knowledge." A person who knows how to express himself in appropriate language can be smoother and more popular with others in interpersonal communication.
Cultivating children's language expression ability is a key point for parents to educate their children, and language expression ability is also one of the basic qualities necessary for a person to survive. With the rapid development of modern economy, language expression ability has increasingly become one of the standards to measure a person's ability. It is not enough for those who have smart minds and perfect opinions not to know how to express them. Only by cultivating the ability of language expression can we convince others more easily and deal with problems more easily.
Children are not born with language ability, which requires scientific training from parents. Psychological research shows that 0 to 7 years old is a critical period for children's language development. Swiss scholar Erazm also showed through research that four years old is the best age to cultivate children's language expression ability. If parents miss the critical period of children's language development, it will be more difficult to cultivate children's language expression ability. In addition to cultivating children's language expression ability, it is also important to cultivate children's volume expression.
Volume expression mainly refers to the size of our voice, and the different volume of speech gives people different feelings. A speech born out of breath will make people feel like winter, and a speech with warm voice will be as warm as the sun.
In the movie "The Thief's Home", grandpa caught stealing from Taihe's sister, but instead of scolding loudly, grandpa tattooed his body and whispered, "Don't let your sister do this again. "Sometimes, when children do something wrong, gentle persuasion is more effective than loud blame.
Therefore, the expression of volume is also extremely important in the process of communication. Educated children know how to control the volume according to different occasions. Therefore, parents should learn to cultivate their children's ability to express their volume when educating their children, so what should they do specifically? Learning level 5 education is the key.
Learn level 5 education and cultivate educated children.
What is "five-level volume education"?
In American elementary schools, it is an essential activity to train children's volume expression. There is a very good classroom, and the dedicated volume test APP is called too noisy, which can monitor the volume of the classroom in real time and score in an interesting way. Through this application, children can keep abreast of their own speaking trends and remind each other to speak in a low voice. In addition, American primary school classrooms will also put up a volume meter to let children know how to adjust their voice volume on different occasions. They divided the voice into five grades-no talking, whispering, group discussion, talking loudly and outdoor. Let's look at the specific usage of each volume.
1, don't talk
The situation of not talking is suitable for a completely quiet state, such as exams, self-study, silent reading and so on. In this state, children need to keep quiet, don't make noisy sounds that affect others' learning, and provide each other with a quiet learning environment in order to keep everyone focused.
At home, if parents answer extremely important phone calls, they also need children to control their own volume and keep it at "1" so as not to affect their parents.
Step 2 whisper
Whispering applies to discussions between two people, and these voices can only be heard by each other. Only by controlling the volume can we not affect the discussion of other groups, and also let the two sides enter the normal discussion.
3. Panel discussion
The volume of group discussion only needs to be kept to ensure that each member can clearly hear what others are saying. You can raise the volume appropriately so that the partner sitting opposite can hear you, but you must be careful not to affect the discussion of other groups of children.
In group discussions, some children often shout uncontrollably. At this time, it is necessary to gently remind them that it is time for discussion, so please pay attention to your speech volume. In this way, children can also reduce the volume in time and pay more attention to it in future discussions.
Step 4 give a speech
Speaking on the stage, your voice must be loud, firm and confident. During the speech, the speaker can raise the volume appropriately to ensure that everyone present can hear what he is saying clearly. At the same time, the speaker should confidently explain his views to everyone. Only in this way can he make a good speech.
5. Outdoor
Outdoor is a place for children to relax. In this relatively open environment, children can be free and scream loudly. When outdoors, increasing your own volume will help children release energy and fully develop their nature.
In the process of cultivating children's volume expression, parents should first set an example. Parents are children's imitations, so parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds and set a good example for their children. In daily life, parents should learn to try various methods to help children master the ability of volume expression, teach children to learn self-control and help children truly achieve correct volume expression.