Don't talk to the child in the morning, especially when he is still awake. Teenagers like to communicate at night because their biological clocks are later than those of adults.

The second sentence: "What would you do? I worked long ago when I was your age! "

Don't compare children with yourself. After a long time, children will refuse to communicate with you.

The third sentence: "If you don't lose weight, you will be so fat that there is only oil left in your brain?"

Don't joke about things that bother him. Remember, teenagers are sensitive and fragile.

The fourth sentence: "Why do you always do stupid things?"

Don't ask such things after some of their actions. You can ask, "What's the point of doing this?"

The fifth sentence: "it's not that I nag, it's that you don't understand!" " "

Don't nag about something over and over again. Only give them their own advice, trust their children and let them choose for themselves.

The sixth sentence: "Look into my eyes."

Don't look the child in the eye. "Sitting side by side" instead of "face to face" makes it easier for children to open their hearts.

The seventh sentence: "Don't play ball this afternoon, we need to talk."

Don't spend a whole entertainment time chatting with them. You might as well chat with your children while playing ball, watching a play or eating.

The eighth sentence: "Who did you throw!"

Don't forbid children to growl, slam the door and cry. Let them vent and train themselves to listen to their emotional words.

The ninth sentence: "How are you at school today?"

Don't ask too general questions, but ask specific and concrete questions with a positive attitude. For example: "How does the teacher evaluate your composition?"

The tenth sentence: "You think so completely wrong, you should ..."

Don't interrupt them, start speaking your mind. Because children need time to sort out their thoughts, they usually can't express themselves clearly at once.

Eleventh sentence: "Don't always spend money indiscriminately!"

Don't always pay attention to trifles. Talking about topics that can arouse their interest, such as sports competitions, concerts and even politics, will help them get to know each other.

Twelfth sentence: "Next time you get a haircut, cut your sideburns shorter."

Don't always give him unnecessary advice, but always praise their ideas.