At present, most children seem to have never dealt with the word "bitterness". Most of their lives are well-fed, and their parents prepare whatever they want at once. The child's living condition is actually directly related to our "love" for him. Nowadays, children seem to be too much loved and protected. We can't stand the child being wronged, so try to give it to him. When a child is used to unrequited love, his ability to love will gradually weaken. And those children who have experienced hard life may know how to cherish hard-won love and understand their parents' hardships because they are not protected too much.

In contrast, a child who has tasted bitterness will appear more mature, and bitterness will also let him know the taste of bitterness, so that he will not be at a loss when encountering setbacks. Therefore, instead of letting children cringe in the face of unprecedented hardships, it is better to take the initiative to let him experience some hardships first, let him taste the ups and downs of life, let his body and spirit taste the bitterness, increase his memory of hard life, and let him not be at a loss when facing setbacks, let alone be afraid, but be able to face difficulties.

Don't be a child's "wishing tree". Many parents are happy to be a child's "wishing tree". No matter what the child asks, they will try their best to satisfy him. Even if they have no conditions to realize this wish for the time being, they will make their children satisfied through various means and efforts in the future. However, this "wishing tree" model has great hidden dangers. Children may mistakenly think that everything is easy, and he will think that "hardship" does not exist. When a child does not agree with the existence of hardship, how can he really understand hardship? Therefore, we shouldn't give everything to children. If we can't do it, we should tell him truthfully that "our family doesn't have that condition" or let him see how hard we have worked to meet his requirements.