After Li Jianjian chose Ling Xiao as his boyfriend, his first reaction was: Why don't you all want me! My parents haven't been around since I was a child. Although I get along well with the Li family, I still can't get rid of my inner confidence. I am afraid that others will look down on me, and I can't panic inside.
In the process of children's growth, a warm and loving home can bring children a sense of security. At the same time, parents' words encourage and understand more, so that children can become sunny and confident people! What methods can parents use to keep their children away from humble mentality?
First, always affirm the child's behavior.
Children's behavior can not be obtained, and only when they are affirmed by their parents will they feel insecure. What parents have to do is to find the bright spots in their children every day and enlarge their own advantages. For example, children's writing, although the whole article is not very good-looking, but as long as you find a word from it, you should praise the children for their good writing and actively encourage them to make continuous progress. If their behavior is affirmed by their parents, they will love writing more and more and write better!
Second, guide children to learn to solve problems when they make mistakes.
When a child does something wrong, his parents' criticism only scares him. He has never learned how to solve the current difficulties.
The best time for education is to guide children to think about what they can do to deal with it when they do something wrong, and how to deal with it next time they encounter similar things in order to produce better results.
Moreover, it is suggested that children write all the methods they can think of on paper and analyze which method can produce the best effect together. Children learn how to solve problems, and they can face anything calmly and solve it calmly and intelligently in the future.
Third, encourage children to do the right thing in time.
When a child does the right thing, parents often worry that the child will be proud, rarely praise the child for doing it right, and instead use the way of hitting the child. For example, children's grades have improved, but parents say: you are still more than 20 points worse than the first place. There's nothing to be happy about!
A few careless words from parents are enough to extinguish the children's inner enthusiasm for learning! No one will give up their love of learning because of their parents' understanding. Encouraging words can ignite children's love for learning! It also helps children to face the troubles in life, and their hearts will be filled with endless power!
Besides these, the warmth of family can make children feel more secure. In the process of getting along, parents can tolerate and understand each other, and children can become good teenagers with firm and kind hearts!
The best time to plant trees was ten years ago, in fact, now! If the child is hurt by the heart, don't blame yourself too much, but from now on, actively encourage and affirm the child, and the changes now will affect the child's life!