Family education is an indispensable part of children's growth. However, some parents use violent means in educating their children, which not only can't really solve the problem, but may also have a negative impact on their mental health. This paper will discuss how to carry out correct family education from three aspects: refusing violence education, setting an example and stimulating children's creativity.

Reject violence education

Some parents firmly believe that "if you don't make mistakes, you can't make mistakes." When children make mistakes, they choose simple and rude ways instead of patient communication. But in doing so, children not only can't really realize their mistakes, but also may have psychological shadows, which will affect the healthy development of personality.

teach by precept and example

Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. Oral education is important, but practical action is more powerful. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, because children will imitate learning. If parents don't behave well, children may go astray. Lead by example and set a correct example for children.

Stimulate children's creativity

Children's interests are the source of creativity. When children show some hobbies, parents should encourage them, not restrict them. Supporting children to develop their interests may become their specialty in the future.