As a bad psychological and behavioral performance in the process of children's growth, the occurrence and development of selfish behavior will have a great impact on children's physical and mental health and moral trend. At the early stage of children's development, all behavioral consciousness mostly comes from instinct. When self-awareness begins to sprout and further strengthen in children's minds, they often monopolize their favorite items and prohibit others from getting their hands on them. These have become the psychological basis of selfish behavior.

In the face of children's growing selfish desires, if parents guide them in time, children can generally accept their parents' suggestions and respond positively. On the contrary, if left unchecked, it will undoubtedly aggravate the development of selfish behavior of the only child.

To cultivate children's cooperative consciousness, parents should strengthen the cultivation of children's cooperative spirit and altruistic consciousness, so that children can know how to think of others and know how to work for others.

Establish the prestige of parents and educate children to respect their parents on the premise of understanding and communication. Children should not be allowed to form the bad habit of giving orders to their elders at will and making trouble without reason. If a child despises the authority of his parents from an early age and doesn't know how to respect his parents who raised him diligently, then he won't know how to respect others when he grows up. Of course, to do this, parents need to have strong willpower and psychological endurance.

In order to get rid of the psychology of justifying a fault, the self-control and self-discipline of the only child are relatively poor nowadays. Parents should be good at listening to other people's criticisms and suggestions on their children, pay attention to observing their children's every bit, and seize the opportunity to correct their mistakes in time, so as to prevent their children from making small mistakes and not changing them, which will lead to great disasters.

There are many reasons why selfish children develop this character. Parents who want to educate selfish children should pay attention to their own words and deeds, set an example, and teach their children what is sharing, what is equality, and what is considerate of others. If you are really at a loss, it is also a more appropriate way to keep a kitten or puppy pet for children to communicate with it.