First of all, Professor Yu Dan talked about filial piety. It is not difficult to understand what she said, "based on reason, filial piety comes first", and the filial piety in it is the filial piety left over from our 5,000-year Chinese tradition. What is filial piety? She said that filial piety is the starting point of an ethics. She listed several famous people, such as Yue Fei and Zhou Enlai. They are all famous heroes, great men, and even more dutiful sons, and there is a story about Tian donating his kidney to save his mother. Imagine how many people can do this now!
In my opinion, to cultivate children's filial piety, we must first start from ourselves. Parents are role models for children to learn. In the dribs and drabs of life, teach children what is filial piety and how to be filial. You can't just talk about it, you must set an example.
Filial piety is basic, and with filial piety, there must be kindness. With these two hearts, you can better integrate into society. Professor Yu Dan said: when the word "benevolence" is disassembled, it is two people, that is to say, only when two people live in harmony can the meaning of benevolence be reflected. For example, our children now are all only children and have no playmates. After school, they stay at home, either doing homework, playing computer or watching TV. There is no chance to communicate with other children at all, so there are fewer opportunities to share with others. Over time, children will become selfish. Then you will be isolated when you step into society in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to appropriately encourage children or take them out to play, make more friends, and handle the relationship with friends by themselves.
With filial piety and benevolence, the last thing is how to cultivate children's spirit of self-reliance, autonomy and self-improvement. Every parent has the same mood, hoping that their children are the best in all aspects. The teacher taught the children at school, and the rest is up to our parents.
Children's habit of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement can only be cultivated in daily life and daily communication.
We can always encourage children, and some things can be done by ourselves. Sometimes parents can also ask their children for advice, no matter right or wrong, they should be encouraged. Don't let children develop the habit of relying too much on clothes to reach out and food to open their mouths. Teach children to do things by themselves, and sometimes help others within their own ability. A caring, self-reliant and confident child can better integrate into society.
Take the children hiking properly during the holidays, see the outside world, exercise their courage and perseverance, and make them strong. In addition, let children do some housework within their power. Don't let your child do this just because you feel sorry for him. Then don't compare your children with others. After a long time, children feel inferior to others in the eyes of their parents, and they will feel inferior or particularly rebellious. Say more words of encouragement, even if there are mistakes, don't blame them blindly, but give correct guidance.
It is also necessary to appropriately increase children's experience. Our children are young, but we can't ignore them. We can encourage them to get in touch with children with different personalities, whether they are good or bad, so that they can gradually adapt to this changeable society and distinguish between good and bad. But parents should guide him correctly, tell him the meaning of "at the beginning of life, nature is good", and let him know that those children with bad personality and bad habits are not born like this, but are formed by long-term bad habits.
Of course, just doing this is not enough. In the process of children's growth, we still have much to learn. But as long as we are parents, I believe our children will be the best in the future.