1. Give children some freedom of choice.

Children around the age of 3 are rebellious, and unilateral orders from their parents often become the reason for their temper. If you say to them, "Go and eat!" Or "Go take a shower!" Usually orders are resisted. At this time, parents might as well give their children some freedom of choice and say in another way, "Which do you want to do first, eat or take a bath?" Put forward two equivalent projects for him to choose, because 2-year-old children will not consider anything else except these two, so most of them will choose one. This freedom of "it doesn't matter who comes first, do whatever you like" is enough to make him feel excited and satisfied. This is a good strategy to deal with children's temper.

In addition, giving children some freedom of choice virtually instills in them a sense of deciding their own affairs.

Parents should not use corporal punishment when educating their children. Corporal punishment includes two risk factors.

One of them is that children tend to imitate their parents and use violence against others. Parents are the closest people to their children, and they are also the natural objects. If parents often punish him, it will turn him into a cruel man.

Secondly, parents often punish their children, and children will be alert and no longer close to their parents. In this way, parents can't give them education and discipline at all, not to mention that children will hold a grudge against their parents and want to wait for revenge. Of course, parents are human beings, and sometimes they can't help getting angry and hitting their children. At this time, there is no need to feel sorry for yourself and regret it, as long as you can control your emotions as much as possible, handle it rationally and avoid excessive corporal punishment.

3. How do parents deal with children losing their temper?

The biggest headache for parents of children around 2 years old is to lose their temper for no reason. In this respect, if parents lack discipline policy and are too soft-hearted, they will be confused by 2-year-old children. The following are some disciplinary guidelines for your reference.

(1) to make up for the child's incomprehension.

Children of this age lack understanding, can't correctly judge the surrounding situation, and easily lose their temper. Parents must listen to him patiently first, and then explain it to him so that he can understand. For example, when he wants other people's things and cries, let him know "his own things" first. "Where is yours? Show it to mom! " Then explain to him: "Isn't this the same?"

(2) Pay attention to whether he is hungry or tired.

Ordinary things, such as being hungry and tired, sometimes become the reason for children to lose their temper. Mother often scolds children: "I lose my temper every night when I am busy, and I have no idea of the hard work of adults!" " "However, has the mother forgotten that the child's hunger and fatigue have reached the limit? In fact, it is the mother's responsibility to prevent this from happening.

(3), the command should be unified

If mom and dad, or grandparents and parents give their children different instructions, it will be very dangerous, which will not only make the children lose their temper, but also make them fall into chaos and be at a loss.

Generally speaking, adults' opinions will certainly be different, which may be inevitable, but if they are opposed to young children, they will fall into chaos. So in any case, family members should adjust their opinions in advance and try to maintain the same policy, so that children can make judgments on complex things.

Indecision is the worst

When a child loses his temper, the most taboo is the indecisive style of his parents. First, he hesitates, then he can't stand the child's crying and finally gives in. In this way, children will think that when parents say "no", they can get what they want by losing their temper, so they use losing their temper as their weapon.