This kind of parental mentality is not correct, and it is very common in China. As a child, there is nothing you can do. If I meet such a parent, I may reason with him, but it is unlikely to change. If I reasoned with such parents when I was a child, it would be even more impossible to change.

Therefore, as long as you change your mentality and improve your realm, you will naturally not care about these. The "value" of "people" is endowed by heaven and is innate, not acquired comparison and struggle. It's a pity that China's educational model only pays attention to the day after tomorrow, not the original thing of human nature, and the comparison is naturally formed. When you realize that everything about people is given by heaven, you will be proud of being a "person" and feel satisfied with what you have, and naturally take the "comments" from outside as air.

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