Parents who like reading books and forget their work will leave a deep impression on their children. At the same time, it plays a subtle role in them. You can't just talk about children's learning. Parents must do what their children are asked to do first. Nowadays, there are many ways for children to contact information, and the amount of information is also very large. Sometimes the questions they ask will inevitably confuse adults. Adults can't do without studying. So we often buy books and read books. When you read a book, the children will naturally look beside you. Sometimes taking children to exercise will also raise some common sense questions. This not only exercises the body but also satisfies the children's thirst for knowledge, killing two birds with one stone. We ask our children to do things seriously. After the child finishes her homework, we will check it for her. If you find her handwriting scrawled, you will ask her to erase it and rewrite it. Sometimes, she can't bear to part with it, but she can't be soft-hearted. She must remember that if she doesn't do it well the first time, she should make more efforts. So be sure to do things seriously and do your best.
Don't like everything too much, but don't be too laissez-faire.
Nowadays, parents know that they can't spoil their children too much, and they can't give them whatever they want to meet their requirements. This makes it easy for children to restrain themselves in behavior, which eventually leads to poor self-control, lack of self-motivation, and lack of courage and perseverance to overcome difficulties. As the child grows up, we will let her do some small things in life. Sometimes help adults do what they can. We want her to understand that she should not only study well, but also learn to live and care for everyone.
Don't expect too much, but be strict.
Parents want their children to succeed, and we share this mentality, but we won't force her to learn what she doesn't like. Try to let children do what they like. I have a wide range of interests and hobbies, work hard, and be a useful person to society in the future.
Fourth, create a good family learning environment for children.
A piece of advice for parents: We shouldn't watch TV and play computer beside children when they are doing their homework. We can read some professional books or read some novels and magazines. The novels and magazines that our children read are all read by our parents, which will facilitate communication with our children.
5. Treat children as friends, understand more, praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less.
The distance between people is terrible, even between parents and children. I think: if we can find the right time to communicate with our children, get to know each other, put ourselves in their shoes and give them more care, then this kind of effort will definitely pay off. As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. I don't ask children to do great things, but I ask them to do every little thing in a down-to-earth way. You don't care about the result, but you must pay attention to the process. When the child failed in the exam, I helped her analyze the reasons and find the gap, so as to avoid making similar mistakes in the exam homework in the future. My goal was achieved.
Cultivate the exchange of experience in educating children. 1. Establish rules and regulations and standardize words and deeds.
A good code of conduct can not be completed by several times of education and activities, but by the persistence of teachers and students. I first determined the education system for the students in our class:
(1), students' civilized behavior system: the subject monitor will check and record students' behaviors every day, so that students' behaviors are under collective supervision and students can consciously abide by the norms.
(2) Health system: the health squad leader is strictly supervised, the health team leader is serious and responsible, responsible for students' health performance, making records in time, doing a good job in education, especially for the environmental sanitation on the east side outside the school gate, making a weekly summary, really starting from a small place and implementing the health behavior norms.
(3) Study habit formation system: The small monitor should manage the recitation in the morning and reading in the afternoon, cherish the time and implement the reward and punishment system, so that the students in the class can truly realize the importance of learning and form a good habit of autonomous learning.
(4) Each student is required to check, self-test and self-evaluate once a day, and the group leader is required to register, and the cadres on duty are summarized, and the group conducts appraisal on Friday to supervise the effect of the formation of norms.
Second, pay attention to the training of class cadres.
On the first day of school, I was democratically voted by my classmates, resulting in a class cadre team with strong ability and certain influence. We should treat class cadres step by step and use them boldly, pay attention to cultivating their working ability and ask them to set an example. Keep your position, do your job, do your job? . In addition, regular class cadre meetings are held to study and solve the problems that arise, and at the same time, new tasks and tasks are assigned.
Third, give full play to the power of activities.
I will make use of the theme class meeting, three-minute speech before class, Monday morning meeting and other study periods. Carry out formative education in a form that students like to see and hear, so that students can know what they should do and how to do it, and gradually establish it. It is glorious to obey the rules and regulations, but is it shameful to violate them? Understand. To this end, I am going to hold several theme class meetings this semester, such as: safety is heaven, I am a polite boy, I hope? "Learn to learn", "Little Master of Learning", "What are your good habits" and "Clean and tidy". Make full use of the location of the class cultural corridor and host a wall newspaper with the theme of educating people according to the characteristics of students in this grade.
Fourth, pay attention to lead by example.
As the saying goes? Say 1000, say 10000, it is better to demonstrate it in person. ? The power of example is infinite. Ask students not to be late or absent from class. The class teacher must first do it and ask the students to be civilized and hygienic. The head teacher should do well in advance, usually pay attention to being strict with himself, set an example, and always remind himself to set an example. At the beginning of last semester, when the cleaning area of my class was divided into the east side outside the school gate, I found that the children could not clean and could not use brooms. So, I followed the children closely, cleaned them hand in hand for five weeks, and taught them how to clean before letting them do it themselves.
Fifth, coordinate the relationship with teachers and parents.
1, take the initiative to contact and coordinate the teachers in each class to understand the performance of the children in other classes. In particular, we should communicate with our new partner He Laoshi and strengthen students' ideological education.
It is difficult for students to form good habits only by school education.
So I also want to get in touch with parents at any time, do a good job of parents, ask parents to cultivate students' good habits at home, put family education into the track of school education, and become a right-hand man in school education. Therefore, I will visit my family regularly, contact individual parents by phone or school newsletter, and give timely feedback on the students' situation. I believe that as long as the school and family reach a consensus, students will certainly form good habits.
Sixth, establish the corresponding evaluation mechanism to promote the formation of good habits.
Repeated planning and grasping can really promote the formation of good habits, but the corresponding evaluation mechanism can quickly promote students to form good habits. So I changed the evaluation method according to the actual situation of my classmates: there is a The monitor on duty notebook in my class. Check according to the specific requirements of good habits put forward every week. Every day, The monitor on duty checks and records, and I randomly check and compare once a week. Who meets the requirements of comparison will change a star and post it in the class? I'm the best? In the competition column, as? Young eagles fight for chapters? The basis of identification. In addition, I intend to design and make a class quantitative assessment form, so that each student's performance in school can be reflected through this quantitative assessment form. I'm going to select a group of outstanding students and groups in my class this semester and award them to these students respectively? Etiquette star? 、? Learning stars? 、? Health star? 、? Self-care and self-discipline star? And then what? The star of book pocket arrangement? ; What are these groups awarded? Cultivate an advanced collective in education? This honor was awarded to the group leader for? Excellent team leader? It's an honor.