Why do children play truant?
1, family factors, because his parents did not satisfy one of his wishes, he was angry with his parents, or because his parents were angry and his family was not harmonious, which led him to lose confidence in life and play truant.
2, the child's own reasons, such as lack of interest in learning, unable to keep up with the curriculum, or making enemies with a teacher, afraid to meet this teacher, or making enemies with a student, threatened, afraid of teacher criticism. Cause students to be tired of learning and play truant.
3. Children's study burden is too heavy. Some parents only pay attention to their children's scores and rankings, which makes their children physically and mentally exhausted all day. Over time, children will have rebellious psychology, bored and even afraid of learning. Can children study happily under heavy pressure?
4. Social factors: students are threatened by some social idlers on their way to school, which makes them feel insecure about going to school, afraid or unwilling to tell their parents, leading to students simply not going to school and then playing truant.
How can children be educated when they play truant?
1, parents should first conduct self-reflection. Didn't you try to cultivate your children's study habits since childhood? Is the education method too rigid? Is it too much pressure for children? Is there not enough praise and encouragement for children? Try to have a good chat with your child, have a heart-to-heart chat two or three times, review your mistakes in front of your child, listen to your child's thoughts, make up your mind with your child, and catch up with your grades bit by bit.
2. Get in touch with the teacher or class teacher in time, ask the teacher sincerely, and analyze the children's main problems with the teacher so as to take targeted measures. Understand when children start to hate learning; Analyze the children's learning situation one by one and find out what the children's worst subjects are; Ask the child if there is any contradiction with his classmates; Have you encountered any major setbacks and so on. In short, the more accurate the question, the better.
Parents and children should be "good children who love learning" together. Some children are tired of learning, which is also related to their parents' lack of progress. Some parents have vulgar interests and neither read books nor newspapers. They watch TV or play mahjong all day, and often bring many people to play at home ... This environment will definitely affect children's mood and mentality, leading to children becoming playful and not seeking progress. Therefore, parents should set a good example for their children, and it is best to arrange common study time with their children, supervise each other and mobilize their enthusiasm for learning.
4. Help children improve their academic performance. If your child has obvious weak subjects and is seriously backward, you can consider asking one or several tutors to make up lessons for your child. At the same time, teachers can also be asked to do more ideological work for children. Children are resistant to what their parents say, but they may listen to others.
5. Communicate with excellent parents and learn from experience. If several children play truant in partnership, they should get in touch with other parents, unite and discuss countermeasures together, and let the class teacher participate in the discussion and work out a plan to save the children together. For example, invite a tutor together, specify a mutual promotion plan, engage in entertainment activities together, and set up a "competition group" to pull the child's heart back.
6. Encourage children with the power of example. Parents can discuss with teachers, encourage their children to associate with children who study well, and create conditions for this kind of interaction. For example, arrange them to sit at the same table; Group them in class discussions and extracurricular games, and so on. Of course, don't add too much burden to each other's children, but also have specific requirements for your own children, such as "read it yourself first, don't know before asking", "preview before class, find out the difficulties, and listen attentively in class"
7. Stimulate children's interest in learning and enhance their sense of responsibility. Communicate more with children, especially teenagers, who have the idea of expanding their self-awareness and living independently. At this time, parents and teachers should give them some autonomy. To enhance children's sense of responsibility, teachers and parents should emphasize children's role in class and family, and make children aware of their own values and responsibilities. Strengthen children's understanding of norms. With the extension of children's education time and the deepening of their understanding level, children will gradually understand the constraints of norms on individuals. ?