Then you may be confused. I still can't speak, and I don't know how he can understand.
It doesn't matter. As long as you realize this, the solution is always much more difficult than the reality.
We can use books or videos specially made for children, parents of illiterate children can watch them, and literate children can watch them themselves.
There are also many resources in this area. This time, I recommend a very good Indian drama about sex education, Father and Son Sex Education Talk, which can basically answer all the ultimate questions about life scientifically and in a way that children can understand.
The play consists of five episodes, each of which lasts more than ten minutes. In the play, Pappu, a 7-year-old boy, throws "What is masturbation" and asks his father Anand for advice. Dad, from the embarrassment at the beginning to telling sexual knowledge with stories and scenes that Pappu can understand, the language is humorous and the content is very practical.
From the score on Douban, we can see how popular this movie is, up to 9.0.
If you are interested in this film, you can reply to "Sex Education" to get the movie address.
Sir Fang intends to use an article to introduce why this film is good, but after reading it, he found that this film is not only remarkable in sex education, but also remarkable in some parenting concepts, such as communication and education, so Sir Fang intends to introduce why this film is good in diversity, with a total of 5 issues, so please pay attention.
In the first episode, Sir Fang thinks there are three very good parenting methods:
1, what is masturbation;
2. How can I communicate effectively with my children?
3. What are the values of being a father?
First, what is masturbation;
In the park, Pappu, a seven-year-old boy, suddenly ran to his father and asked him, what is masturbation?
How did you answer this question?
Is that right?
So how did dad answer this question?
The above is the ultimate answer, but the child may not understand, so dad made a long preparation before this. He started with the children's familiar nursery rhymes of Mother Goose, and combined with the crickets that Pappu is familiar with, so that children can better understand the meaning of masturbation and derive what the sex organs are.
Second, how can we communicate effectively with our children?
In the process of communicating with children, limited by their knowledge and experience structure, some problems may be difficult for him to understand directly. What should I do?
We can tell him what he is familiar with by analogy. For example, Pappu's father told his children what to masturbate from their familiar mother goose nursery rhymes and crickets.
What should we do if we don't know the answers to some questions?
This is a good way to change the subject. The child's attention is very distracted. When the child is entangled in a question and you don't know how to answer it, we can change the topic.
However, if this topic is very important to children, you must remember to do your homework and make it clear to them next time, otherwise he will find the answer from other channels, because children are as curious as scientists.
Just like Papp's dad.
Also, when a child asks us questions, we should also remember to ask him where he learned this thing, which is very important for us to master the channels for children to acquire knowledge and understand what children really want to know.
Third, dad's educational view;
In Sir Fang's view, this episode not only gained knowledge, but also gained a kind of values. Pappu's grandfather is his father and carries out traditional education. Pappu's father is very dissatisfied with this, so his view on children's education is "I want to be a father, not a father, but a friend of my children."
I was very moved after reading it.
Finally, what Mr. Fang wants to say is that you don't have to read those big books to learn parenting knowledge. Parenting knowledge is everywhere in your life.
I am Sir Fang, and parenting is a marathon. We need scientific methods to guide children to grow up, so I am committed to using scientific methods to build a parenting system. If you think my sharing is useful, please help me like it and forward it.