Universal education is for the healthy growth of children.
But there are always some people who think they are better than experts and researchers and understand them better, so they oppose this kind of behavior.
The reasons why sex education is lagging behind.
Many people strongly oppose sex education, especially when children are young. Simply drawing in picture books was resisted by some parents and even took the Education Bureau to court. They think that children are too young to learn these things, and some teachers who popularize sex education for their children will also be sued by these parents. The court held that these teachers were just bad habits, not qualified teachers.
Parents' lack of cognition made them stop the development of sex education.
I have a friend with me. Even when she was 25 years old, she didn't know these simple knowledge of sex education. I popularized her a lot. She also asked me if you were Neptune. How do you know so much? I asked her doubtfully, didn't your teacher teach you this? She said that she had never learned this knowledge, and their physiology class only talked about hygiene and some so-called self-love, that is, some theories, but she didn't understand it, and even the teacher didn't show them condoms. During the whole explanation, I also found that because she didn't understand this matter, she didn't take precautions against many things, and she didn't understand the metaphorical meaning of many boys' words. I think she is lucky not to meet those bad boys. Education in some places is not perfect.
How do parents popularize sex education for their children?
1. convince yourself to face this matter
Contact some teaching materials and read more, and you will find it completely different from what you imagined. He doesn't have so much filthy content, nor is it as unbearable as we thought. The first thing we should do is to convince ourselves to face this matter. If we can't face it ourselves, it will be difficult for you to do it in the process of popularizing it to children, because when you face this matter, you will think it is a very bad content.
2. Overcome our sense of shame
It is hard for many parents to say it, because this content is really shameful, and many parents don't know how to describe it when describing it. Boys know more than girls because they can talk about these things in the dormitory and naturally understand them, but girls often need their parents to overcome these feelings of shame and tell them to take preventive measures to protect themselves when they are away from home. If she doesn't know anything, she will be easily deceived by others.
3. Popularization of science
Why do many parents object to giving their children sex education? It is often because in the whole process, the popularization of their sex education will always be associated with some very indecent pictures and contents. In fact, there are many science popularization sex education. In the whole popularization process, children can learn about this knowledge and learn the content, but they will not learn those indecent pictures and contents. Let's choose some relatively good teaching materials for children and popularize them through scientific methods. There is no need to hide them. The more you hide them, the more curious they are, and the easier it is for them to go astray.
4. Timely and effective promotion
1. When children are three to six years old, simply popularize the differences between men and women and tell them that there are differences between men and women. At this time, children began to popularize related things.
2. When the child 12 years old, that is, at this stage of his hormone germination, he began to popularize some simple sex education and teach the child to protect himself. Because you are not sure whether the child will make mistakes on impulse, in this process, not only sex education is popularized, but also protection is taught to him.
3. Between the ages of 12 and 18, you must tell your child what sex education is and what results it will lead to, give your child a psychological expectation, and let your child really understand this matter. This can effectively prevent children from thinking too much about this matter. You can choose some movies to let your child know what will happen if you make this mistake, and show those terrible consequences directly to your child.
Sex education is also an educational content, and we should judge it as an education, not a terrible thing.