As an educator, I have done a lot of thinking about what education is. "One soul awakens another soul" is the best answer.

A person knows nothing about the world after he is born. He needs to grope bit by bit in the process of growing up, and then gradually enrich his knowledge. According to the law of human growth, human education can be roughly divided into several stages.

1, 0-6 years old infancy: the foundation of early personality, parents' love and personality demonstration are the key.

Parents have the most contact in early childhood, so family education is the most important, and children's learning objects are mainly parents.

During this period, the child's brain is still in a state of development, and the most important learning is imitation. He will observe his parents' behavior, and then imitate it intentionally, unable to distinguish right from wrong and the meaning of doing so.

So the influence of parents' behavior on children is very important. A harmonious family environment can give children a sense of security. Gentle parenting can make children feel happy in life, let them participate in family life and cultivate their sense of existence.

Parents should obey the rules, have good living habits at ordinary times, pay attention to manners and etiquette, and communicate and solve problems when meeting.

Three years of kindergarten is very important, which is an important stage of behavior development and the first social environment for children to contact except family. If kindergarten teachers are more responsible, children will be happy to study at school, so they will be happy to go to school.

2, primary school for 6 years, we must do a good job of self-motivation.

Let children participate in activities, encourage them to work hard, and then experience the joy of success.

The most important thing to enter primary school is to learn to get along with classmates and teachers, know the correct way to get along and integrate into class life as soon as possible.

Every child has his own bright spot. Don't focus on grades, but evaluate children in many ways. Don't be too anxious even if your academic performance is not ideal at this stage. As long as children have good study habits, good thinking and good physical fitness, there will be no major problems in the future learning process, and the advantages in this respect will gradually emerge.

Let children talk about their ideals and set up lofty ideals. At this stage, we should not be down-to-earth, but we must have the idea of pursuing.

If possible, you can take your children to see the outside world, let them experience different lifestyles, and plant the seeds of hard work in their hearts.

3. Six years of middle school is the most critical stage of adolescent personality development.

Junior high school should sort out a mess of specious values. To firmly establish a positive "three views" in high school, the core issue is to promote the integration of middle school students' self-concepts, and to grasp the main contradiction of "integration and differentiation of middle school students' self-concepts" will hold the "bull's nose" of middle school students' personality development.

Junior high school, the second rebellious period, the first appeared at the age of 2-4. If the transition of the first rebellious period is better, the second is easier, so parents need to worry more.

Adolescent children are easily influenced by their peers, so parents need to pay more attention to their friends and friends of the opposite sex. Parents should guide their children to make friends, and don't "veto" the problem of having heterosexual friends. Normal relationship between men and women is enough, don't interfere too much. Even if the child has adolescent agitation, it cannot be solved in a radical way.

The thinking logic of senior high school is relatively clear, so we must pay attention to the cultivation of "three views", which is very important for shaping personality in the future and cultivating correct life and social attitude. Nowadays, there are many channels for society to obtain information, and children receive all kinds of information every day. At this time, parents and teachers must pay more attention to positive guidance and let them pay more attention to the good side of society and see the good side of life.