1, understand empathy.
Always look at problems from the perspective of children. When talking to children at ordinary times, it is best to squat down, keep the same height as children, and don't always be overbearing.
2. Don't be too harsh.
Parents should not be too hard on themselves, be patient with their children, and be patient with themselves first. Be tolerant of yourself Be more tolerant in everything. Be patient with children.
3. Learn to manage your emotions.
Emotion in a normal state is the premise of rationalization of education, and only by staying awake can we rationally judge and deal with problems. When your child is not doing well enough and your parents' emotions are on the verge of losing control, you can immediately leave the emotional scene and come to a quiet environment, close your eyes and take a deep breath to calm yourself down.
Taboos for educating children:
1, "Seedling encourages growth". Some parents, regardless of their children's development, force their children to learn to stand early, learn to walk and learn to write ..... which leads to a serious imbalance between children's body and mind, which leads to children's bad temper, anxiety, indifference, loneliness and other problems, and may also lead to problems such as refusing to learn and not knowing how to get along with others.
2. Excessive autocracy. Regularly regulating children's actions with authoritative tone, restricting his freedom and denying his ideas will make children in a state of panic for a long time, unable to express themselves, and only know how to be passive in Nuo Nuo, which will make them lose confidence and courage to try new things.