I am very concerned about my children's academic performance, so I urge them to study hard every day. Recently, however, Lili found that children are obviously tired of learning and increasingly resist reading. After discovering this problem, Lili also tried many methods, but they all ended in vain, which made Lili feel particularly worried. In fact, if we want to solve this problem, we must find the cause of the problem.
1. Why do many children hate studying and don't like reading?
1. Parents are under too much pressure.
Recently, it was reported on TV that a child aged 15 would be asked by his parents to study until ten o'clock every day when he got home. Being in such a high-pressure state for a long time finally caused the child to break out completely and had a serious resistance to reading. In the face of children's unwillingness to study, parents became very irritable and eventually slapped their children, but what parents didn't expect was that it was this slap that led the children to run away from home.
In fact, this is because parents put too much pressure on their children, which makes them unwilling to study.
Encounter setbacks
Learning is not an easy task for anyone. In the process of continuous learning, we will encounter all kinds of setbacks, which requires us to have a good attitude. If parents can help their children relieve their inner pressure when educating them, it will not affect their reading interest. If this situation continues to intensify, it is easy to lead children to have boring ideas.
3. Not interested in learning
Children are always interested in nature and toys when they are young, so they will spend a lot of time and energy exploring nature. However, many children are not interested in textbooks and naturally do not want to invest a lot of time and energy, so it is very important to guide children to become interested in learning. When children don't want to study, parents don't need to worry too much, and they can save the situation through certain remedial measures.
Second, children are tired of learning and don't study. How should parents remedy it?
1. Make full use of children's interests
We already know that if children are not interested in reading, it is easy to feel tired of learning, but if they think from the opposite angle, parents can also use their children's interest to make them fall in love with reading.
First of all, parents must know something about their children's interests, and then recommend some related books to their children according to their interests. After they have developed good reading habits, tell them what help this method can bring to their future interest. Educating children in this roundabout way is also an important reason why children are interested in reading.
2. Give a principled reward
Reward is an important way to stimulate children's willingness to learn, but it must be used with caution. First of all, we must determine whether the rewards agreed between ourselves and our children can be realized, and the rewards for children are not unrestrained.
The most important thing is to prevent parents from giving their children too much incentives. Otherwise, children always think about rewards when studying, which will undoubtedly have a great impact on their academic performance, and it is difficult to cultivate the habit of improving their performance.
3. Use appropriate methods to make children feel confident.
If children encounter too many setbacks in the process of learning, they will be bored with learning, but if they get very good grades in the process, they will have confidence and a sense of accomplishment, and even fall in love with learning. This requires parents to guide their children properly when they study.
For example, parents can set some very easy-to-achieve small goals for their children at the beginning of their studies, and give them praise and rewards after they have achieved the small goals, which can improve their self-confidence. At the same time, as children study longer and longer, parents also appropriately increase the difficulty of the goal, so that children can always maintain their interest in learning.
Reading has a great influence on anyone's life, so cultivating children's good reading habits is a top priority for every family. Only by adopting the correct methods can parents have a good effect on their children's education, otherwise their enthusiasm for learning will be hit. Parents can use the above methods when educating their children. I believe that after using these methods, it will definitely give children a better future, and it will also enable children to form the habit of studying hard from an early age and benefit for life.