From Zuo Zhuan, "Fang" is Tao and "Fang Yi" is virtue. "If you don't love your child in the right way, it will hurt you": If you don't guide and love your child with morality, you don't love your child, but hurt him.

There is a time interval of 1500 years from Zuo Zhuan to Zi Tongzhi Jian. These two sentences have the same meaning: how should we love our children, and what kind of love is really good love for our parents.

Three aspects of family education:

The first aspect is "family is the first lesson in life, and parents are the first teachers of children". What kind of family education will bring up what kind of children. Therefore, for parents, family education should pass on good morality and habits to children, give them correct guidance, and establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.

Every child of ours, from babbling to toddler, has been educated and edified by his family and influenced by his parents imperceptibly. Three-character scripture says: "If you don't cut jade, you won't be able to cut it. People don't learn, they don't know righteousness. "

Then, in a family, parents should be role models for their children. They should set an example, teach their children by example, button the first button of life for their children, take the first step in life, and take the first step in life. This is the first question.

Second, parents should shoulder the responsibility of educating their offspring. Parents should educate their children that "it is the father's fault not to teach". In the traditional culture of China and the history of China, there are many cases of strict family education.

What we are familiar with today are Meng Mu's Three Movements, Taomu's refusing to fish, mother-in-law's tattoo and painter's son, all of which are typical cases of strict family education of the ancients. The ancients said that this is what strict father meant when he gave birth to a dutiful son.

Third, family education involves many aspects, but the most important thing is moral education.

Therefore, we parents should pass on good moral quality and full positive energy to our children. A good family style is passed down from generation to generation. Spring breeze melts rain and moistens things quietly, affecting future generations.