The first is to lead by example. After Bauer was three years old, I began to cultivate my hobbies, such as reading, writing and painting. Most children choose leisure time after falling asleep and before waking up. Usually, in order to save time, after work, I usually don't look at my mobile phone, don't brush the drama, and accompany my two children wholeheartedly. Recently, my daughter wrote an essay "Mom, you are my role model", in which "Mom was not disturbed by our voice, I watched her quietly and listened to her typing voice ..." Recently, my daughter's learning efficiency has improved a lot, and she can flexibly use the time management methods I taught her. I believe my efforts will touch the children around me, let them see their parents' unremitting efforts and try to be themselves.
The second is to start from the end. This should also be based on parents, who meditate and think back from the moment they die. What kind of person do parents want to be, push out their children's ultimate dreams, and infer what they should do and what their goals are in educating their children one day. It can be clearly seen that the child's current state is only a stage of growth. Education is a process from birth to death. Education is not limited to family education. We should teach children to realize what kind of life they want and fight for it. When children grow up in nature and have the power to be themselves, they can continue forging in the melting pot of society.
The third is unconditional love. We often say "other people's children" because we always have too high expectations for our children. This expectation will make us ignore our children's current progress and always compare our weaknesses with the strengths of other children. It seems that children deserve all our love only if they become what we want. In fact, we should let our children know that home is their shelter from the wind, and we accept all their successes, failures and sorrows. Our love is unconditional, and we have no regrets. Don't impose adults' thoughts on children, they just come to this world through us and try to be themselves. The essence of education is not only to learn knowledge, but to become an independent person with physical and mental health.