Actually, it's not. During preschool education, it is still very important for children to develop some behavior habits.
First, self-care ability
In the pre-school stage, most of children's daily life is arranged and managed by their families. Children are prone to coquetry and rely too much on close people, so it is difficult to develop good living habits and independent ability.
But after kindergarten, it's different. Without the dependence of family members, children will be more willing to learn various life skills. With the guidance and help of teachers, children will have more opportunities to try to do it themselves, and improve their practical ability by studying some basic life skills hard.
Second, the ability of social communication.
In collective life, one ability that children must master is social ability. Because children need to play and study with other children, it is difficult for children to integrate into kindergarten life if they can't communicate and interact with others.
Moreover, the development of interpersonal skills has a great influence on children's future primary and junior high schools and even stepping into society. Therefore, every conflict and small problem that children encounter in kindergarten is their learning process. Parents don't have to worry too much and are eager to help their children solve the crisis. Instead, we should give them the opportunity to learn to solve problems by themselves and find a suitable model to get along with their peers.
Third, the awareness of rules
It is very important to help children to establish a sense of rules in preschool education. Because freedom with rules is true freedom.
When children's judgment ability and self-control ability are weak, they are always used to doing whatever they want, regardless of the consequences and gains and losses. This will easily lead to the deviation of children's personality and cognition, which is not conducive to children's growth.
Therefore, adults should establish a good sense of rules for children and let them understand what can and cannot be done. And let the children know where the principles and bottom lines of parents and teachers are.
Children with a good sense of rules will be more popular in the group and will be more able to adapt to the rules of society in the future.
Parents should never underestimate preschool education, because children are first exposed to the collective environment and small society besides family.
What you learn from it may affect your child's personality and cognitive development!