My husband's buddy, the child just went to post-kindergarten this year, because the kindergarten teacher asked parents to cooperate with the teacher, teach the child to do something within their power, cultivate the child's independent spirit, and love the good habit of using their hands and brains.
This buddy's kid seems a little unreliable. He just doesn't want to do what his parents say. Once like this, twice like this, it is said that this little guy didn't buy it at all. At this time, the child's father was furious and scolded the child.
However, the mother of the child with the goose next to her is very anxious. She immediately held the child in her arms, got up and told her father, don't force him if you don't want to do it. These things will grow up sooner or later. What's the hurry?
As soon as the child saw his mother protecting him, he made a face at his father and said, Bad father!
To tell the truth, I don't agree with this educational model! As husband and wife, or family members, when any one of us is educating our children, the rest of the family members must not stop it too much. Even if you disagree with your family, don't argue over differences when educating your children.
If there are differences in educating children, you can choose to communicate privately and never show it in front of them! Preventing another view of your education will only make your child more and more disobedient, especially if he opposes his parents' education, and his child will feel a little rebellious in the future.
Of course, we'd better reach an agreement on the issue of educating children. Unless one party is inappropriate and unscientific, we will communicate with him more privately and instill more good methods of scientific education in him.
I believe that no matter what this person thinks before, he will be willing to accept your opinion, because our opinions are different, but the starting point is the same, both for the good of children and for the better of children.
Therefore, when educating children, we must reach a good agreement between husband and wife and family members, so that they can listen to what we say in front of children and are willing to listen.
Of course, we also need to respect children's opinions, because sometimes our thoughts can't determine children's thoughts. Children and our ideas are inconsistent. We should learn to listen to children's innermost thoughts, and then consider whether children's ideas are correct or not and whether they can be adjusted with our ideas. Never blindly ask children to obey us and obey us. Such education will only make children more and more rebellious.
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(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows Xiao Yi Ma Ma)
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