For junior high school children, there should be more guidance and less restrictions. When children reach junior high school, they also enter adolescence. Children in this period are more eager for independence and freedom, and more eager to get rid of the discipline and restrictions of their parents. If parents' discipline and restrictions are too trivial, it will often make the problem more and more serious, which may cause children to have extreme xenophobia and weariness of learning.
3. Educate and manage children who enter junior high school. Don't get angry easily, let alone reprimand them easily. When parents get angry endlessly or teach their children lessons, they will stab into the children's hearts like a poisonous thorn, which will make the children have an extremely exclusive psychological reaction in their hearts, thus making the adolescent children more rebellious and more difficult to discipline. It may cause your academic performance to plummet, and you are unwilling to take the initiative to learn and be proactive.
4. Parents should learn to listen patiently and guide actively. After children reach junior high school, it is the most rebellious stage of adolescence. Children in this period need to gain a sense of independence, freedom and self-existence. At this time, no matter what parents think, they should calm down and listen to what their children think. No matter what he thinks, no matter what he says, listen patiently Only by listening patiently can children truly feel their parents' attitude towards themselves, which is more conducive to effective communication between parents and children and can hear their true thoughts.
After entering junior high school, children are very different from primary schools. Children gradually have their own conscious judgment and value orientation. With their own basic views, parents can no longer manage them with the thinking and psychological way of primary school. They must know how to trust and respect their children. Give children more guidance and guidance in their studies, and less nagging and compulsion. Don't force your child to make up lessons on weekends and holidays as in the past. Come back and sit in front of him at night to supervise him to finish his homework.