1. Parents' education concept mainly refers to parents' education concept for their children, including parents' views on talents, parent-child relationship, children and education.
2. Parents' views on talents. Parents' view of talent refers to parents' value orientation for their children to become talents, which is closely related to parents' own value orientation for talents and directly affects parents' expectations, training objectives and educational priorities for their children. Nowadays, many parents regard going to college as the only way for their children to become talents. There is a phenomenon of valuing wisdom over morality in family education, which deviates from the educational goal of all-round development. According to the investigation of Beijing preschool education project, as far as the focus of parent education is concerned, most parents attach importance to the cultivation of children's body and intelligence, while neglecting the cultivation of children's character, which seriously affects the development quality of the new generation.
3. What kind of talent view should parents set up? The talent view of the champion. There have been 360 lines since ancient times, and each line is the champion. In the future society, China needs to develop both knowledge-intensive industries and labor-intensive industries. This determines the diversified demand for human resources for economic construction and social development, that is, tens of millions of professionals and hundreds of millions of high-quality workers are needed.
4. The talent view that everyone can become a talent. Although everyone is different and has a different personality, but "I was born useful", everyone has the desire to make progress, everyone has rich potential, and everyone has their own intelligence, advantages and advantages. Through good education and training, everyone can become a talent and succeed.
5. The talent view of lifelong learning. With the development of information technology, alternating activities between school and workplace will become the basic survival mode of everyone in the future society. A more flexible, convenient and independent lifelong education will pave the way for everyone to succeed. The view that "learning will benefit you for life" is out of date. The growth of talents will ultimately be achieved through the great practice of society and continuous efforts of oneself.
6. Therefore, parents should establish a correct view of talents and realize that talents are diverse and the ways to become talents are also diverse. Parents should realize that as long as they contribute to the society and the country and give full play to their intelligence, they will become talents. Therefore, the all-round development of children's morality, intelligence, physique and beauty is the educational goal.
7. Parents' parent-child view. Parents' parent-child view refers to parents' basic views on the relationship between their children and themselves, which affects parents' parenting motivation. Because parents have different views on parent-child relationship, they have different parenting motives.
8. The relationship between parents and children is not only the relationship between elders and younger generations based on family ties, but also the relationship between educators and educatees, and it is also the relationship between close friends. A large number of survey results show that the greatest hope of contemporary children for their parents is that their parents can become their friends.
9. Parents' responsibility to their children is to care, support and guide, but don't fall into the misunderstanding of doting. Parents should pay more respect, understanding, trust and encouragement to their children's education, instead of preaching, reasoning, setting rules, and not simply asking for help. Parents should regard their children as citizens of the country and the future of the nation, establish the idea of being a godchild of the country, and overcome the wrong idea that children are private property, and educate their children only to honor their ancestors, carry on the family line, raise their children for old age or realize their parents' wishes. Parents' parent-child view also indirectly affects parents' parenting attitude and way: parents who are godchildren are generally more rational and have a more democratic parenting attitude; Parents who educate their children for themselves are often emotional, take care of their children too much, demand too much and are too strict, and have a more authoritarian attitude towards education.
10, what parents think of their children. Parents' view of children refers to parents' views on children's rights, status and the law of children's development, which directly affects parents' attitude and way of raising children. The views of parents and children must establish the following three basic points.
1 1, the child is human. Children are "people" not "things". Parents should treat and cultivate "people" as "people", respect children's personality, attach importance to children's wishes and needs, and communicate with children equally.
12, the child is a minor. Children are in the process of growing up, immature in all aspects, and their psychological state and way of thinking are different from those of adults. Parents should understand their children, allow them to make mistakes, and make them have a gradual understanding of mistakes. Forcing adults' ideas on children, making decisions instead of children, and forcing children to do what adults want will often lead to the opposite result.
13, children will eventually become independent people. Children are independent people, with independent personality and dignity, and will join the society independently and start their own careers. This is a process that no one can replace. Childhood life is not only a preparation for future life, but also a life of independent value, and adults should respect their lives.
14, parents' education view. Parents' view of education (also known as parental view) is mainly manifested in their views on the role of education in children's development and its role and function. It is often related to children's views, and affects parents' attitudes and ways of parenting and their role in family education. Some parents deny the role of education in children's development, think that "nature is honest", adopt a laissez-faire attitude towards children, and limit their role to only raising and not teaching; Some parents overemphasize the role of education, ignore the law and level of children's development, and regard family as the second classroom. Parents should correctly understand the relationship between education and children's development, implement education scientifically, fully realize their irreplaceable role and responsibility in family education, and consciously undertake the task of educating children.
15. In short, parents' educational concept affects parents' parenting behavior and is the key to determine the quality of education. Nowadays, parents often attach great importance to seeking good educational methods and neglect to correct their own educational concepts. This kind of temporary solution is not a permanent cure, and the practice of simple copying is not satisfactory. Therefore, it is important for parents to master the correct educational methods, but it is more important to correct their own educational concepts, so as to apply educational methods to practice correctly and flexibly. Therefore, in order to improve the quality of family education, it is imperative to correct parents' educational concepts.
The above is an introduction to the concept of parents' education.