Method is the most important to treat children. When we criticize a child, don't criticize him Talk to him in private, tell him why you are angry with him, and let the children know that you love him. But we sometimes lose our temper, but we can't attack the child's character or character. Children are not parents' punching bags. So, what are the ways to communicate with children?

? What are the ways to communicate with children?

? 1. Let the children stabilize their mental state and emotions first, and let them approach the conditions of communication with them in a guiding way. When the child's concentration and maturity are mature, parents should sit down and communicate with their children seriously. First, parents should go into their children's hearts and listen to their voices and all their demands.

Parents can communicate with their children every day, and both parents and children will benefit. Children can know what their parents want. Parents also know that their children are overgrown with weeds every day They can see that their children are doing well in the eyes of their parents. Growing up is also the most gratifying thing for parents.

3. Being good at listening to children's speeches is the beginning of effective communication with children. Don't interrupt the child's speech easily. Interrupting or even prohibiting the child's speech will only make the child disgusted.

4. Appreciate and praise. When communicating with children, we should appreciate it more and use more oral English such as "You are great", "You are great", "You will know" and "You are better". Criticism and education should also be carried out in praise, and children should be persuaded verbally.

5. Spend more time with you. Accompanying children is the best education. Nowadays, many parents neglect to accompany their children because of their "busy" work. In fact, the words and deeds of parents accompanying their children will subtly affect their children and affect their lives.

6. Body language. When communicating with children, you can't ignore the use of body language. Sometimes touching the child's head, hugging or kissing is the best comfort and encouragement for the child. This is better than a thousand words you said to him.

? 7. Understand children's needs. If we can perceive the child's needs and satisfy him in a reasonable way, the child's mood will always be more positive, and the relationship with us will be very close, and communication will naturally be easier. After all, everyone wants to communicate with people they like.