After children go to school, some parents will shift the responsibility of educating their children to the school. These parents believe that since their children have been sent to school and paid tuition fees, the school should be responsible for learning and education.
Parents' responsibility is to feed and warm their children and try their best to meet their material needs. But this is actually the wrong choice.
1. It is not only the school that affects the grades, but also the children themselves.
Sometimes parents complain that their children don't do well in school exams, and they have changed their class teachers several times.
If a subject has poor grades, the teacher's educational level in any subject will not work. In fact, the ability of teachers is indeed high and low, and the management in the class is also good and bad, but these influences on the class performance and children's personal performance are not absolute.
Children's talent, children's living environment, parents' attention, family education level, etc. It is a problem that cannot be ignored in children's growth. In school, teachers provide the same education to every child, and some students are different because of the children themselves or their families.
2. School education is not perfect.
Family education can make up for the shortage of school education. As we all know, the school now implements the class teaching system. A teacher should teach forty or fifty students with a set of textbooks and a lesson plan. The students they teach,
There are some differences due to various reasons. After all, teachers' energy and time are limited, and it is impossible to carry out different education according to each student's situation. Therefore, if our parents want their children to grow up as soon as possible, they should use family education to make up for the lack of school education and carry out targeted education according to their specific conditions.
Children's growth is like a century-old tree, which needs to go through wind and rain. For parents, you need to be patient enough to accompany them. Accompanying children needs care, and companionship is more than nursing. Educating children is the legal obligation of parents.
The Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates: "Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children." The Compulsory Education Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) also stipulates: "Parents or other guardians of minors shall cooperate with schools and other educational institutions to educate minor children or other wards." Therefore, as a child's first teacher, parents should shoulder the obligation of family education and do a good job in children's education.