First, when parents discipline their children, no matter right or wrong, don't interrupt. Parents and grandparents have different educational expectations for their children and different social environments. It is normal to feel uncomfortable, but the interruption will make parents' education fall short. (If you have any objection, you can write privately. )

Second, don't let the child listen, give him a mobile phone to watch TV. Don't watch TV within one year old, don't watch mobile phones within two years old, and children should look at it according to their parents' choices.

Third, don't destroy the child's concentration.

When a child is doing something seriously, don't disturb him by talking to him frequently, or feed him water, and don't ruin his own play unless the child invites him actively.

Four, don't be too arranged, agent.

Children have their own interests in exploring the world. They can eat by themselves without feeding, and they can learn to dress and wear shoes without help. All skills need to be learned and practiced, and they won't do well at first. Teach him patiently instead of doing everything for him.

Don't tell your children that your parents don't want you. This kind of bad joke will do great harm to children's psychology.

6. Don't overprotect your child's growth. Excessive protection is not conducive to his growth, especially for boys.

Seven, don't destroy children's creativity.

How to play with toys? It is the children who explore themselves. Don't correct him if he doesn't play correctly. We adults' formal play and children's creative play are not the same world. Don't correct how he should play.