Indeed, we have to admit that raising a boy requires parents to pay more patience, energy and time. Of course, money is also essential. If a child is old enough to go to school and doesn't study well, girls can learn to dance and draw and decide his future with boys. Therefore, in learning, parents have much higher requirements for boys than girls.
To learn from boys' marriage, we should know that in China, boys always have to buy a house and get a wife, so buying a house is also a big expense for us ordinary people.
Sometimes when I look at other people's family having girls, I will be envious and feel that it is too hard and too tired to raise boys. But some people who have been to tell you that the benefits of having a boy are girls, and others say they can't compare with them.
First, having a son is the invisible driving force of parents' efforts.
Because a son is born at home, parents are more confident to strive for progress, because you can't support your child's tomorrow without hard work. From the perspective of self-motivation, having boys is definitely more conducive to the survival and development of mankind.
Second: it is better to have a son, and the mother is more relaxed.
People say it is difficult to bring a boy, because the boy is naughty, because the boy makes his mother worry more, but in fact it is not. Girls are far more dependent on their mothers than boys. And most mothers who raise boys can have big articles, but if you try to raise girls, can you do it?
Third: the son is the mother's protector, and the mother should feel happy.
Seriously, adopting a son is really a blessing for my mother in her last life, because he can really be your protector. The son of the school is growing up. If the father of this family is not satisfied, how do you think your son treats this father? Therefore, although it is hard to raise a son, the treasure mothers still think it is worth it.
Fourth: having a son will not cause the pain of distant marriage.
If we have a girl, will we not be at home when we get married? When parents live alone, they will think that their children are no longer with them, but adopting a son can avoid this. There will be no feeling of fat water flowing out of the field.
In fact, people nowadays are very cheerful. Whether they have my son or daughter, they are all their own flesh and blood. As long as they inherit their own lives, it is the most important thing in your life for this couple.
On the way to parenting, we are all novices. How to take better care of children can pay attention to me and discuss those things with me.