If you don't instill good ideas in children from an early age and teach them that there is no distinction between high and low, many lives depend on the hard work of the people at the bottom. If these people don't want to do it, many things can't go on normally.
1. Why do children look down on their parents' work?
1, can't satisfy his vanity.
Many children dream that their parents are officials or stars, and saying their parents' names will get a lot of envious eyes.
Everyone has a copy in their heart? Vanity? Be better than others, be satisfied and happy in the gap with others, and be tortured and painful when you can't satisfy this vanity.
Children think that money is everything.
Many children look down on their parents, no matter what their jobs are, as long as they think. Not enough money? Or? Others have more money than me? Sometimes I blame my parents. Why do others have it and I don't? Why should I use what others have used when others can use such good things?
All this is because? No money? .
3. Wrong family education.
Example is better than words. Many children's habits and values come from imitating their parents.
Children have excellent imitation ability. Many children can see that a family's education and parents' behavior will affect children's thoughts.
Parents are too tolerant and easy to forgive after their children do something wrong, which makes it easy for children to do whatever it takes to get what they want.
When children grow up and their minds are fixed, it is difficult to re-educate.
In order to make their children get better grades, many parents keep asking their children, threatening them and offering money to lure them to study. When their children make mistakes, they criticize them too much, without considering their self-esteem and ignoring their wishes.
Educating children requires a lot of patience, time, energy and understanding to cultivate a confident, independent and intelligent child.
In order to improve their children's quality of life, many parents spend their time at work, ignoring their inner needs. Some parents can't meet their children's material needs. Why are children so happy and enterprising?
Second, children should also have a good professional outlook.
1, it is not easy for children to understand every profession.
Analyze the quality of every job for children. For example, farming can strengthen the body, working can learn a lot of skills, and high officials should also consider the grassroots people. Not every job can be easily controlled. You have to work hard to get the money.
Money is not everything.
Although money is an indispensable resource in life, it is not only the people who earn more money who are the most powerful.
Some people earn money to support their families, while others pursue their dreams. Although they can't satisfy their material life, they also get a kind of satisfaction and happiness in their hearts.
Everyone has his own development.
Different fields need different talents. Even if you are good at this, you may not be a genius in other fields. Many seemingly beautiful and high-end jobs are not necessarily suitable for them. Some people like to do challenging jobs and earn more. Some people prefer plain life, and they are content to live and work in peace and contentment.
Every job has its hardships, bitterness and happiness. No matter how the social economy develops, there will always be new occupations, or some occupations will fade out of society. Various occupations satisfy different people's wishes, including personal interests, abilities, social environment, career orientation and so on. Occupation does not completely represent a person, and occupation is only a part of life.
Third, how to make children affirm their parents' work
1, absorb new educational knowledge.
With the passage of time, the social economy is changing, and the environment in which children grow up is also changing. Educational methods should be constantly improved and innovated. In traditional parenting education, authority is used to educate children, and it is inseparable from beating and scolding.
Parents absorb new knowledge and social innovation, which also helps to adjust their children's ideas.
2. Let children learn to be reasonable.
Many parents will get used to maintaining a dignified image in front of their children, learn to put down their posture, respect their children from the heart, and talk to their children in an imperative tone less than before? No? Answering children can not only cultivate their self-esteem and self-confidence, but also make them more brave to try new things.
Parents should not look down on themselves easily, but let their children see the benefits of their careers.
When you have no self-confidence, children will have no self-confidence. Even if you do the lowest level of work, even if you are just a cleaner, don't feel humble.
Parents can have the courage to say to their children: Mom learned patience and carefulness in this job. Not everyone is as great as my mother and can do this job well. ?
You don't have to hide your work from your children or feel embarrassed about it. Tell the children the hard work, process and harvest truthfully! Let children know the significance of this job, what attitude parents have towards this job, and inspire children to respect and respect this job.
Fourth, cultivate children to learn to respect others and understand their own careers.
1, everyone is equal, regardless of occupation.
If farmers don't grow rice, we will have no food and grass to eat; If workers don't build houses, we will have no place to live.
Don't underestimate your potential to compare with others, and don't think others are superior to you when they are doing jobs they can't accept.
2. Really put down your body and let the children experience it.
Parents can let their children experience jobs they don't understand and understand the hard work and fatigue behind them. Only by letting children really get in touch with work can he change his misunderstanding and prejudice about some jobs.
3. Set an example and be a good example for children to see.
Don't cling to powerful people, don't sneer at the poor, and lend them a helping hand when they are in trouble.
Parents should set a good example for their children to imitate. When we don't like a person or a job, children will learn not to like it, but if parents always respect others, the opposite children will respect others.