First, we should love our children reasonably. Don't be too strict and don't be coquettish. Being too strict will cultivate "slaves" who have no ideas of their own and always rely on people to make decisions when they grow up. This is the tragedy of education. Favorite will cultivate a "bully", who is self-centered and arrogant in everything. When he grows up, he will argue with his parents. How can he tolerate others who are not his parents in society? Therefore, this kind of child will be nervous in interpersonal relationship and hit a wall everywhere. We should love children reasonably, that is, in principle. This kind of love is rational love and great love. If we love our children, we must insist on teaching them how to behave, such as honesty, consideration, care and gratitude. When you love your children, you must take care of these checkpoints and not indulge them. Second, educators should have a good attitude. Be content and have "high standards and low requirements" for children. Children should be educated with the mentality of "learning to speak and learning to walk". Be sure to let nature take its course, don't encourage others, just work hard and don't care about the result. Whether a child's mind is stretched is the key to the success or failure of education. Third, educators should set an example. Because the vision of education is upward, the so-called "upward effect". Fourth, the family should be harmonious. As the saying goes, "family harmony is a harbor, husband and wife live in harmony, and children are at ease." Children's hearts can be quiet. The ancients said, "Quiet makes wisdom." Fifth, cultivate habits. To truly love children, it is necessary to cultivate good habits that will benefit children all their lives. Good habits can change their destiny. Cultivating good habits is like taking root firmly. Whether the trunk grows tall or strong depends on its depth.