If I work hard to raise my child, but when I grow up, I find that he behaves like a baiwenhang, I will reflect on myself first and not blame the godfather. As parents, we play an important role in guiding and educating children in their growth. Therefore, when children's behavior is contrary to our expectations, we must explore deeply and think about whether there are problems in our education methods.

The importance of words and deeds

As parents, we are role models for children, and they will learn a lot from us. If we lack respect, honesty and kindness in our daily life, then children are likely to imitate our behavior. Therefore, we should set an example, set a good example and pass on the correct values and morality to our children.

Reflection on the way of education

Education is not only to impart knowledge, but also to cultivate children's character and personality. If we are too demanding of achievements in the process of education and neglect children's mental health and emotional needs, then children may become indifferent and selfish. Attention should be paid to cultivating children's emotional intelligence and social skills, teaching them correct behaviors and ways to treat people, so that they can care about others and respect their feelings.

The influence of family environment

Family environment also has an important influence on children's behavior. If the family lacks a warm and harmonious atmosphere and is full of quarrels and conflicts, then children may grow up in such an environment and then show negative and aggressive behavior. As parents, we should create a good family atmosphere, establish a good relationship of communication and trust with children, and let children feel the warmth and care of the family.

Establishment of parent-child relationship

Finally, we need to accept children's personality and characteristics. Every child is unique. They have different talents and interests. We can't expect them to act and develop according to our expectations. On the contrary, we should respect their choices and support them to play their own strengths and potentials. Give children enough free space to learn to think independently and make the right decisions.