Children are lazy and not motivated, which is a problem that many parents will encounter. At this time, we should start to look at this problem from our own perspective. At the same time, we should find out the reason why he is not motivated, and then prescribe the right medicine.

Find the reason and prescribe the right medicine.

First of all, we should see if we are lazy and give a bad demonstration to our children. If so, then try to change the status quo and let parents set an example. The power of example is great. If there is a lazy person in the family, it will set a bad example for the children. Children will follow suit.

In addition, it depends on the friends the children make. If all his friends are lazy and playful children, they will also give him a bad demonstration. Try to stay away from these children. There is a classic story about Meng Mu's three steps. Why did she keep walking is to create good conditions for children to learn and keep Mencius away from some bad demonstrations.

Give him more positive hints and guidance. You can take him to see some inspirational movies to stimulate his inner potential and make him equal with these people. You can buy some biographies and history books, so that he can examine his behavior from a historical perspective and be on an equal footing with some excellent self-disciplined people in history. With an example, you will naturally become excellent. At the same time, be good at encouraging and guiding him, praise him if he makes progress, and let him know what is right.

Finally, tidy up the housework, so that there is a good learning environment at home. Some parents like to play mobile phones and watch TV. When children come into contact with these, they develop these bad hobbies, thus neglecting their studies and leading to weariness of learning. Create a learning environment and atmosphere at home. Don't take the lead in watching TV at inappropriate times, buy more books to make the home look more tidy and orderly, and let children subconsciously accept such an environment and yearn for learning.

My study and childhood experience

When I was a child, I didn't like studying. I feel too tired and hard. But later, under the guidance of my brother and sister, I learned that learning is the road to happiness, and I also had some fun competing with my classmates. I also fell in love with learning. There are not many electronic devices at home, but we will play some word games such as two-part allegorical sayings or brain teasers, which also drives me to yearn for a brain full of wisdom.

In fact, learning and doing things are very tiring, which is inevitable, but if you cultivate interest and set goals, you will also gain a lot of fun. You won't feel so hard at this time.

There are many children around me, but I generally don't severely criticize their bad behavior, nor do I satirize their bad behavior. It is to guide them to do something, not to say what not to do. In this way, they can better understand some practices of adults without strong rejection.