We know that there is a saying that "example is more important than words", which means that setting an example is more important than oral education, but strict education such as beating and cursing is also a demonstration, but it is only a "wrong demonstration". If we always criticize and scold our children, then when they grow up, they will involuntarily fall into the educational cage of their families and continue to use their parents' educational methods, because they have been like this since childhood and they don't know it.
As the saying goes, "children who are often criticized learn to be harsh; Children who are often beaten and scolded learn to hate; Children who are often criticized can easily become inferior; Children who are often restricted will become more and more rigid and stubborn ... "
I believe that Lang Lang became a musician because of his hard work and talent, not because his father beat him more often than others. After all, if strict education can really make children become excellent, then the world will be full of talents!