The first is that one party takes care of the children and the other party doesn't care. The one with the child felt that he was too tired and had some complaints, which led to a quarrel. This is also commonly known as widowed education. For this kind of quarrel, I suggest mutual understanding and mutual concessions.
The second is that one side takes care of the children, while the other side ignores them, but it is pulled back from time to time to destroy them. This is often said to lie to the corpse education. Then it's really time to scold the one who doesn't care about the children. But remember to teach the saboteur a good lesson when both sides calm down after scolding.
The third is that parents have too different educational ideas for their children, which leads to quarrels. I suggest that both husband and wife read more books, read more books by authoritative educators, find educational ideas recognized by both sides, and educate their children together. In addition, after all, the object of our education is children, so why not ask the children's opinions, who is educating well? Many children are actually very psychological. No punishment is a good way to educate children to be kind and firm, and a healthy world outlook, outlook on life and values are the correct educational concepts. Parents quarreling in front of their children is a bad example for children, which only shows that neither husband nor wife will educate their children. If you can't do it, then don't learn how to be a parent. What's the noise?
Don't think that your educational concept is better than Fang's. Very simple logic: how can you educate your children with such a proud educational concept that even the other party has no educational clothes? All undemocratic, oppressive and dictatorial modes of education and communication are wrong.
? Husband and wife should communicate peacefully, respect each other, learn from each other's strong points, learn more educational theories and respect their children.
? Parents who will educate their children well must have the same educational philosophy and will not quarrel about it.