Tolstoy believes that parents' education is the most important stage in a child's life, and it is also the basis for acquiring knowledge, moral values and social norms. It is emphasized that parents should not only provide material support and protection, but also play the role of education and become role models and guides for children.

According to Tolstoy's point of view, parents, as children's first teachers, should pay attention to the following aspects of education:

Values education: Parents should convey correct values to their children, such as honesty, integrity and respect for others. Through his words and deeds, he has a subtle influence on children.

Cultivation of interest in learning: Parents should encourage their children's curiosity about knowledge and cultivate their interest in learning. You can broaden your children's horizons and stimulate their curiosity by reading, discussing and visiting with them.

Emotional education: Parents should pay attention to cultivating children's emotional intelligence, help children learn to deal with emotions, establish good interpersonal relationships and cultivate empathy. Parents create a warm and harmonious atmosphere in the family environment and provide children with a sense of security and emotional support.

Cultivation of autonomy: Parents should give their children proper autonomy and encourage independent thinking, problem solving and decision-making. This helps to cultivate children's self-confidence and sense of responsibility. Attach importance to and support the role of parents in the process of children's education, and provide necessary educational guidance and support. Only through close cooperation and joint education between family and school can children develop in an all-round way and grow up happily.

The first teacher suggested that parents are children's roles.

1, the view that parents are children's first teachers has a broad consensus in the education field. Besides Tolstoy, many other educators and psychologists also emphasize the important role of parents in children's education. Family is the first learning environment for children, and parents are the closest people to children. Words and deeds and values will profoundly affect children and even determine their development direction. Therefore, parents' educational methods and family environment play a vital role in children's growth.

2. In modern society, with the increasing importance of school education, the educational role of parents is sometimes ignored or diluted. However, for a healthy and comprehensive child, family education is still an indispensable part. Parents can provide high-quality educational resources and a good growth environment for their children through companionship, guidance, inspiration and demonstration.