Education that integrates education with life needs long-term cultivation and cannot be formed at once. In daily life, parents should set an example and subtly leave a basic behavior route for their children when they are young. Even if the child will have other behaviors when he grows up, these basic behaviors still deeply affect him.
Parents' behavior has the deepest influence on children. Parents' behavior is not correct. Even with a good education, children will learn from their parents' behavior. Children have no ability to judge right or wrong in the initial stage. They will think that everything their parents have done is right and follow suit. Therefore, the most fundamental thing for children to go in the right direction is their parents.
If you want to improve children's learning ability, the best way is to stimulate children's interest in learning. For example, children are interested in a certain subject and don't like learning. At this time, you should talk about his interests, keep close contact with his studies, and then tell the children that they should not be forced to correct, but should be tempted and guided. Many adults use provocation to stimulate their children's enthusiasm, and only 5% of them can succeed. Children are smart, not as simple as adults think. Treat children like adults, ask them more questions about them, let them express their ideas, then analyze, find the key points, and then guide them.
Many children like to play. This is normal. Don't excessively restrict children's games and entertainment, and of course, you can't indulge.
Give the child enough time to relax and have fun, and then let him study. In learning, adults should try to enrich their children's interest in learning.
Give the child the greatest encouragement, don't be picky, don't say that other children are better than him in front of the child, and ask him to learn from other children. Because for children, the best reward is the recognition of parents. Parents don't recognize children, but encourage other children. Such behavior will seriously hit the positive interest of children and stay in the hearts of children who are not sensible. Parents subconsciously don't like it. Such a child is rebellious in the end.
Even if the child's academic performance is poor, don't criticize him, try to encourage him and make him full of hope for the next time. Instead of strict education, he finally felt that he could not do his best. Often say to children: "You are the best."
But when a child touches on a matter of principle, he must not indulge. We must educate him when he should be beaten and scolded, but remember not to say that he is not as negative as other children.
Chatting with children and treating them as adults, you will find many problems and new ideas that you have never thought of. Ask the children more questions. No matter whether the answer is right or wrong, we should listen patiently, correct mistakes, tell the root cause and essence of things, and encourage, reward and praise the right ones.
Give more small rewards when rewarding, and don't over-reward, which will make children's pursuit of material things persistent.
In addition, we should find a suitable method for children and teach them what is suitable and what is the best.
The best is not necessarily the most suitable, but the most suitable is the best.
Finally, I wish you find an educational method suitable for your children as soon as possible.