1. A short essay on the experience of educating children.
I am very glad to share with you the usual methods of guiding children to learn by themselves. Primary school is the initial stage of children's lifelong learning. Obviously, this period is particularly important. This is a process of knowledge from scratch and from existence to gradual expansion. Many people understand that children are curious and want to ask why. At this time, I think the most important thing is to cultivate children's interest in figuring out the problem process. Children's problems. If you are confused, you can answer with funny metaphors or stories. If you are not clear, you can postpone the answer. For example, let me think about it or check the information. Don't answer easily if you don't understand. Don't bother, because it will interrupt the child's interest and make him disheartened. Over time, children who want to understand will become unwilling to ask more questions for fear of rejection. Children's interest in finding problems is cultivated, and you will feel that it is very simple for parents to deal with their children's learning, because it is followed by their initiative in learning. Good study habits are also an important aspect of autonomous learning. Learning without rules and clues will make you passive. Therefore, I usually pay great attention to my children's study habits and gradually guide them to arrange their time reasonably, such as reciting before breakfast, doing homework after breakfast or before dinner, and reading books before going to bed. The children are very cooperative, which makes my guidance very effective. At the moment, his homework has not been finished. Occasionally, when his mother tells him to have a good meal before continuing to cook, he will let us wait for him for a while. I think it makes sense, too. Suddenly stopping thinking about a topic in the middle of a composition is definitely not conducive to future study. Children have a naughty side, and sometimes homework will be delayed because they want to play. I will smile at an appropriate time to remind them that once he is found to watch TV or play computer games occasionally, he will never tolerate it, and confession is negotiable.
Guiding children to think before encountering some problems is another aspect of my son's education. As a result, his mouth will tell the answer or finish it by himself. When he does something wrong, I will ask him why he did it. What is the reason? what do you think? I will never scold him. On the contrary, I will praise him and tell him the correct way of thinking. If you always answer your child's questions directly, on the surface, it will help your child learn knowledge and make it simple. In my opinion, it is not necessarily good for every child. After a long time, some children will become dependent, refuse to use their brains, and ask people when they encounter problems, which is very unfavorable for cultivating children's love of thinking.
Children's learning is a joint effort of many parties. To tell the truth, I am also very helpless and unprofessional in guiding children to learn some subjects. There is an idiom that getting twice the result with half the effort is good, and good methods will make children's learning simple and comfortable. This also requires me to consult my children's teachers and parents with excellent experience. Let's work together to cultivate the next generation of qualified talents!
2. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
Nowadays, how to guide children to grow up healthily and happily has become the top priority of parenting. My parenting philosophy is that healthy physical and mental growth is more important than learning knowledge. Before the children entered the park, I bought many story books, such as Baby Pictorial. Every day I fall asleep with a beautiful and philosophical fairy tale. Until now, children have to listen to at least one story before going to bed every night. Children's favorite movies are Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf, The Adventures of Doby Didi and Bao Guote's Attack Team. I hope he can realize the truth, goodness and beauty of life from wonderful fairy tales, and cultivate his free, optimistic, positive and happy attitude towards life, which is conducive to the habit of growing up in the future. I am not so keen on teaching him to learn writing and pinyin. It is very important to choose a suitable kindergarten for children. I compared many kindergartens nearby, and finally found that the educational concept of the experimental kindergarten is very similar to the parenting concept we have always adhered to. Educator Ye Shengtao believes that the purpose of education is to cultivate habits. He said: "We receive education at school with the aim of forming habits and enhancing our abilities. After we leave school, we still have to receive many aspects of education and educate ourselves. The purpose is to form habits and enhance abilities. The more natural the habit, the better, and the more enhanced the ability. " Childhood is a critical period for forming habits. The child's mind is a magical land. If you sow an idea, you will reap an action. Sow an action and you will reap a habit; Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a destiny.
3. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
I think good living habits are very important for physical health and psychological growth. It is necessary to make some rules for children to form good habits. In this process, we all seek children's opinions in a consultative tone, making him feel equal to adults, which makes it easier to stimulate his initiative and enthusiasm. For example, eating without watching TV, controlling the time of watching TV, washing before going to bed and so on. He is very active in cooperation, and he happily completes everything that needs to be obeyed every day. Over time, habit becomes nature. In normal education, we try to guide our children to decide what to do and when to do it, respect his own opinions, and make him feel that this is what he wants to do, not what our parents force him to do. In this way, children will consciously play, learn and grow in happiness. 4. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
Although I haven't taught small classes for four years, the age characteristics and curriculum penetration of children in small classes are not as good as those of other teachers, but since I took over this class, I feel it is my responsibility to manage and serve it well. At the beginning of each semester, new students enter the park every year. It is an important job for teachers to solve the anxiety of children's separation. In order to make children familiar with and like kindergartens as soon as possible, I have been exploring and practicing on the basis of many years' experience and in-depth understanding of children's psychological characteristics and family situation, and tried to adopt the method of family-oriented kindergarten education, which has received good results. (1) It is very effective for freshmen to adapt to young children and divert their attention with snacks. When the children cry badly, the teacher will distribute the snacks prepared in advance to them. For children with young children, it is very effective to divert attention with snacks. When the children are eating the food they are familiar with, they are just like living at home, shouting, "Give it to me, teacher, and I won't cry."
(2) Good routine culture.
1. The compilation rules are clear and unified. Good practices are established through constant consolidation. The requirements of the two teachers must be consistent, and the children will have standards.
2. Pay attention to your own demonstration and actions, and create a good learning atmosphere. Children in small classes, for example, always leave their toys around. Like jambalaya, there are all kinds of toys in the toy basket. Teachers put forward specific requirements and demonstrate. Instead of knocking down all the toys, they took them away one by one. After the child learns to put it gently, I will gradually ask the child to be fast and learn to close it quickly: put both hands at the same time; Stack several identical building blocks and collect them together; Collect what is in front of you first, and then help others collect it. ...
3. Pay attention to the gradual routine setting of the target. Regular training can't just pursue immediate results, such as regular training for children to put on and take off folding clothes. The "sequence" I realized is like this. The training goal of the term in the small class is to know the advantages and disadvantages of your clothes and put them in a fixed place. The training goal of small classes in the next semester is: with the help of teachers, they can wear clothes, learn to button buttons initially, and have a sense of neatness initially. The training of small class children's daily routine is also the same as our requirements. In the first half of last semester, small classes were mainly adapted and familiar; The second half of the semester: mainly focusing on initial compliance. The first half of the next semester in small classes: mainly to consolidate and improve; The second half of the semester: mainly willing to abide by it.
4. Take children's songs and other art forms to cultivate good routines. In the process of training and training children to wash their hands correctly, the children either have the wrong order or the details do not meet the requirements. I made up a hand-washing song with my children: "Wash your hands before eating and turn on the tap gently. Wet your little hand first, and then rub it with soap. " Rub your hands, rub your back and rub your little hands. It's really clean. "This will not only enable children to master the essentials, but also master the sequence of actions.
5. Don't be stingy with praise and encouragement. I attach great importance to emotional education and often talk about "love" with my children. We integrate "love" into the activities of the day. For children who eat well, sleep well, come to the park without crying, and are polite, teachers often say, "Baby, that's good. Teachers love you." I also pay attention to catch the little progress of the children in the garden, praise them in front of their parents in time, kiss their little faces or touch their heads.
In addition, I often take some games to teach children how to do and know how to follow every routine in their routine training. The establishment of a good routine requires our teachers to be conscientious, strengthen inspection at ordinary times and persevere.
5. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
In fact, educating children is neither complicated nor simple. My experience is: more love, more patience and more care. Basically get twice the result with half the effort. When we were young, I would take time to tell him stories every day. Although he didn't necessarily understand or know those words at that time, my purpose was simple, that is, to listen to stories for him, to create a learning atmosphere for him and to make him interested in reading.
Facts have proved that this is very necessary. Because in this process, he also knew a lot of words, all of which were done imperceptibly. Now he reads books by himself every day, basically I don't care. In this process, patience is very important. Because in the educational method of treating children, it is impossible to be as simple and direct as adults.
Yi Ming loves reading, but he is not interested in mathematics, and I didn't force him to study, because I knew it would be counterproductive, so I just took advantage of my usual opportunity. For example, there are sweets at today's party. Ask him to count. How many are there in all? How much is left after giving it to everyone? That's all. As long as I have time, I won't let go. Gradually, my interest grew stronger and stronger. It is convenient to add and subtract within ten now.
I don't think it is necessary to arrange time for educating children. It is through some small things that we should pay more attention and find opportunities to guide our children. To be honest, I don't envy those children who have learned a lot of knowledge and skills. I only hope that my son can develop good study habits and pave the way for future study and growth!
6. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
Careful observation shows that the advantages of children can be seen at any time, but in life, parents are always used to looking for and magnifying the shortcomings of children and comparing their shortcomings with the advantages of other children. They often say that other people's children are like, like, so good and so excellent, and their own children are always "riddled with holes" and useless. A successful educator once said, "Every child has many advantages, but his parents are just the opposite. They always stare at children's shortcomings and think that only by managing their shortcomings can children grow better. In fact, doing this is like a poor craftsman, and it is impossible to make perfect porcelain. " Each of our parents should be good at discovering the advantages of their children and let them grow up in confidence. Even problem children should try his best to find his own bright spot. Even gold panning in the sand, even insignificant, needs sincere praise, encouragement and correct guidance.
7. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
The world of adults is different from that of children. If parents want to communicate with their children, they need to learn one thing, that is, always think from the perspective of children and try to understand and know children from the perspective of "children's world". Often children will think the opposite of you. We need to learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. Standing in different positions will produce different views. When children encounter problems, they can quickly look at them from their standpoint and angle, analyze them, and solve them effectively. Not only that, empathy is an effective way to understand children's real thoughts and quickly get closer to their hearts, and win their trust and friendship.
8. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
The world without love is dark, life without love is tasteless, parents without love are cold, love is the hope of life, love is an impassioned melody, and love is an immortal beacon that will always illuminate children's future. Parents' love is passionate blood, beating poems and flowers accompanying children's life journey. The education of parents' love is a clear sound floating into children's ears, a touch of new green blowing through children's eyes, and a clear stream flowing through children's hearts. "Physical contact, verbal affirmation, constant attention, gift giving, action support ..." I think these are all manifestations of loving children. Love will become a pocket. Putting it in will produce satisfaction, and taking it out will produce a sense of accomplishment. If children are allowed to grow up in love all the time, they will live in happiness and satisfaction, and they will also feel life with a deep love, be grateful to others, meet challenges and grow up healthily.
9. The Experience of Educating Children is a model essay.
Parents are full of beautiful expectations for their children's future. In today's era of stress and emphasis on achievement, parents are eager to provide all excellent conditions for their children. Therefore, regardless of the child's endowment, we painstakingly use our own model to shape the child, which brings pressure to the child. Excessive expectations not only add sadness to children, but also bring infinite troubles to parents. Expectation is a kind of trust, which is conducive to children's self-confidence and enterprise, and is the driving force for progress. But if it is divorced from the reality of children, it will be counterproductive. Therefore, it is necessary to master a degree to make children happy and healthy. Times are changing, ideas are updating, and the methods of educating children have to change. The present era is no longer our past childhood, and children grow up in an open, free and pluralistic society. Educate today's children and use new methods to reason. Only by bravely learning new methods to educate children can we live in harmony with children in the new era, establish a healthy and happy relationship between us and children, and cultivate more outstanding children through care, respect, guidance, education and protection. Mom and dad work together! I believe our eyes will be bright.
10. A short essay on the experience of educating children
My daughter is a middle school student with high IQ, but she lacks perseverance and hard-working spirit. Therefore, when she entered junior high school, her grades went up and down. To this end, I set different small goals for my children. In the first semester of senior one, our goal is to enter the top ten of the class. After several exams, I found that the top ten in my class may not guarantee the top one hundred in the whole school. So in the second semester, our goal is to enter the whole school 100. When this goal is achieved, I encourage my children to sprint to the top of the class. Of course, there must be sufficient temptation conditions. It used to be a scholarship, but this time I promised her that as long as I rushed to the top of my class, I could realize one of my wishes. My daughter wanted a puppy as a companion, and I readily agreed. Because my daughter once had a puppy, the puppy kept her away from the loneliness of her only daughter and walked out of a person's loneliness. The puppy got lost after being with her for half a year. Since then, this lovely child has a deep puppy complex. After the results of the first monthly exam in the second semester of Senior Two came out, she really won the first place. Naturally, she has a lovely "little monster" Every child is unrepeatable, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages. We only tailor the "small goals" of each stage for our daughter according to her actual situation, so that children can work hard in the process of pursuit and experience the happiness of growth in the struggle.