When an old man dies at home, is your first reaction the warmth of your family or the supremacy of interests? When life is a mess, do you remember to care about your husband and children? Are you full of complaints or calm when the epidemic is at home?
Zhang Hanjie and Chu Wang 20 1 1 directed the TV series "Family Property" is such a drama. Through the struggle for family property between the four brothers and sisters of Gaos family, we can see the problems of human sentiment and family education.
I watched the play "Family Property" intermittently a few years ago. Stay at home these days and take it out to review it.
Because it's so real.
In this play, Gao's family happily welcomes the New Year, while Gao's father mentions the division of inheritance. But later, because the old man's favorite grandson Huo didn't go home, the matter went away.
Accidents will happen. Unfortunately, on New Year's Eve, Master Gao suddenly fell ill and drove to Hexi.
Since then, the four brothers and sisters of Lao Gaojia, Gao Daxiu couple, Gao Daguo couple, Gao Erguo couple and Gao Sanguo couple, have started a battle for property and even went to court. In short, it never stops. ...
This is a seven-step poem by Cao Zhi, a poet of Wei in the Three Kingdoms period.
It means that we are all born of the same parents and are the closest brothers and sisters. Why do we hurt each other and kill each other?
Yes, drama, big country, two countries and three countries are all brothers and sisters of a mother, and they must have had happy memories of growing up together when they were children. After the death of the old man, why do you have to deny the family property with the old man?
Economically speaking, people are selfish.
Let's not talk about the four grandsons of Gaos thought, namely Huo, Gao Huan and Kuaile. Let's just say that these four parents also have their own ideas.
1. Gao Daxiu and Huo Jiandong
Gao Daxiu is Gaos sister, and Huo Jiandong naturally becomes Gaos brother-in-law.
It is said that big sister looks like mother.
This is reflected in the big show. Because of family problems, the Gaos held numerous family meetings, but all ended in quarrels and fights. Even because of a series of things that happened in the family property, such as a car accident on the tall, I went to consult with my elder sister and brother-in-law.
Many times, although Gao Daxiu said "Never mind, never mind" and pretended to be sick for it, he still went to be the "peacemaker" of the whole family.
In fact, the Daxiu couple are typical "good people". They want everything to be prosperous at home. They hope that their brothers, friends and brothers can respect each other as guests, and their families will be happy, so that Gao's parents can feel at ease in the spirit of heaven. But at the same time, they can't do anything about those ungrateful brothers and sisters.
Yes, what is real success? Is it not good health and happy family?
2. Zhang Lan, a tall country
Gao Daguo and Zhang Lan are the second couple of Lao Gaos, and also the eldest brother and sister-in-law of the three brothers.
First of all, as the elder sister said, big countries are unreasonable because of their childhood experiences.
During the Cultural Revolution, a big country, as the eldest of boys, was sent to the northeast. When I came back, my studies were delayed. He was frustrated since he was a child, and of course he thought the whole family owed him.
Secondly, the dispute over the inheritance rights of the higher countries is out of control because of the son's apprentice.
Any mom and dad will be soft-hearted when they see their children crying and hanging themselves and encourage them to do so. In order to marry Yue Xiaonian, Gao Fei keeps pushing tall countries on the issue of houses, so sometimes tall countries that can be rational become irrational.
Finally Gao Da had an accident. The root cause is still because of yourself.
A tall country is also a person who knows how to reflect. However, he looked in the wrong direction. During the heritage war, there were the most farce in big countries, and finally there was a car accident.
In fact, what he should reflect on most is himself. If you are unsuccessful in life, you should blame yourself for not working hard and fighting for it, not others' "blackmail".
You know, a gentleman asks for himself, and a villain asks for others.
3. Senior two, Wang Hong
Senior two and Wang Hong are the third couple in Gaos.
Sophomore, I started as a person. However, I can't help the greed of my wife Wang Hong. Therefore, in the competition for family property, the second year of high school is getting more and more crazy.
Since the old man died, his daughter-in-law Wang Hong has never been idle.
First, borrow the old man to clean up the house and find a passbook; Then go to the old factory to check the deposits of the elderly; Finally, he secretly reissued the old man's death certificate and bought the house he left behind. ...
Busy, busy, busy fighting for fame and gain, busy being superior to others, so busy that I ignored my daughter's feelings, so busy that I forgot my family and lost my way completely. ...
Really, sometimes I think, is the house really that important? Is money really that important? Is interest really that important?
In fact, if you have a house and money, you don't call it home. If you are happy together, you call it home. A place with temperature is called home; The forever safe haven is called home.
4. Three countries, Chen Aiping
Gao Sanhe is the third brother and wife of Gao Jia.
Senior three countries are the youngest in the family and the most successful in their studies and careers. As the head of the credit department, he likes to tell his family what to do when he goes home, but no one at home listens to him.
Like the second year of high school, it is his wife, Chen Aiping, who is getting more and more possessed in the fight for property.
Chen Aiping's excesses are not only manifested in his doubts about everyone's character, but also in his indifference and indifference to blood relationship.
When giving the elderly a 100-day taboo, Chen Aiping's first thought was to go to court with two countries; Gao Huan had an accident and was admitted to the hospital. When Chen Aiping visited, the first thing that came to mind was the lawsuit between the two countries. A car accident happened in a big country and you need medical treatment. Chen Aiping's first thought is to sell the house, but not his own home, but two countries. ...
Yes, before the interests, each has his own small thoughts. But what can be more important and meaningful than the peace, health and happiness of a family?
3. Reflection on family education from four grandchildren
In addition to seeing through the changes of the world, this drama also reflects on family education.
1. Huo Yaoting
Huo Yaoting, the son of Huo Daxiu and Huo Jiandong, is also the head of the TV entertainment channel.
Standing at the age of thirty, he is young and promising, and he is also the most upright of the four children. The "peacemaker" in the family and the outstanding young people at work.
In fact, Huo's parents not only created superior material conditions for their children, but also created a rich spiritual world for them.
As Li Yueer said in the book "Children are Feet, Education is Shoes", "There are two educational environments for children, one is the material environment, and the other is the spiritual environment".
For parents with financial ability, they can buy school districts for their children; But at the same time, it is also important to give children unconditional love, no exchange and no threat.
What we can do is: first, set an example. To make children have great love, we must first be parents with great love; Second, with enough love and companionship, children also need our care; Third, trust children and let them become themselves.
After all, raising children means raising yourself first, and raising yourself first. Educating children needs love, care and lifelong growth.
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Gao Fei, the son of Zhang Lan and Senior Two, is also the owner of a computer repair shop.
Gao Fei's ex-girlfriend is called Yue Xiaonian. Gao Fei always thought that Yue Xiaonian broke up with him because he had no room or money. So when he was a sophomore, he kept pushing his father to fight for real estate. Finally, there was a car accident between the two countries.
As a matter of fact, Gao Fei's father, a sophomore, has always spoiled his son. No matter what the child says or does, it is right.
At the same time, senior two didn't teach his son to fly high, so he should learn to reflect on himself when he met something.
Teacher Fan Deng said in Reading that there are three realms of reflection. One is not knowing how to reflect; The second is reflection, not reflection on what others have done wrong; The third is to reflect on yourself and find reasons from yourself when encountering things.
Probably flying high and high school are the second realm of reflection. I never blame myself for not working hard, only others for not giving strength.
Nine times out of ten, the unpleasant things in life are often. As parents, we should set a positive example for our children; As parents, it is necessary to educate children that "there is only one thing in life, that is, to keep practicing, to keep asking yourself questions and to become a better self".
3. Gao Huan
Gao Huan is the daughter of Gao San Guo and Wang Hong.
Gao Huan once said, "I actually hate both." . The two of them refer to Gao Huan's parents-Gao Sanguo and Wang Hong.
As for why I hate my parents, it's because on the way of this crazy battle for property, the Three Kingdoms and Wang Hong forgot that they still have a daughter who needs their love and care.
In fact, Gao Huan is a girl with a heavy mind; In fact, Gao Huan also needs parents' attention.
Every child needs to be seen; Every child longs for kisses and hugs from his parents; Every child wants the warmth of family.
Therefore, no matter how busy you are at work, don't neglect your family; No matter how tired life is, we should fill it with the "cup of love".
Be happy
Happy, daughter of Gao San Guo and Chen Aiping.
In a happy way, I have lived in a honey pot since I was a child, reaching out from my coat and my mouth is full of food. I don't know how small I am.
It is also true that happy parents are successful in their studies and careers, but happy parents are snobbish. This also led to, although economically well-fed, spiritually innocent, and even met love rat who was pregnant before marriage.
In pedagogy, there has always been a saying called "poor boy, rich girl."
In fact, both boys and girls should be raised well. Real wealth means not only material wealth, such as buying a house with a swimming pool for children; It is also spiritual enrichment, such as teaching girls self-esteem and self-love.
Just like the big sister in the play said, "Why must something happen in our family in order to be calm and closely United?"
Yes, why do we have to "cherish it after losing it"?
For example, because of family property, I was killed and my wife was separated, just to remember the warmth of my family;
For example, breaking up with friends because of trivial matters reminds me of the beauty of friendship;
For example, if you quit, you will cherish your previous job;
For example, only when the epidemic breaks out can we cherish our health;
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I remember a saying, "there is no shortage of beauty in the world, what is lacking is the eyes that find beauty."
Therefore, it is true to live in the present and cherish the people in front of you.
At the end of the article, in "Family Property", the four brothers and sisters of Lao Gao's family and their families finally had another New Year.
The ending of TV series is always happy, but in life, not every family caught in the battle for property can end in comedy.
Always remember that family happiness requires the joint efforts of every family member; Always remember that everything can flourish only if the family is harmonious.
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