Love can make people blind. Like you said, this kid is good. Now that he knows that you are married and have a husband, he won't do anything bad. But you should consider that if your husband is not around all the year round and you are empty, lonely and sad, he will come to comfort you, take care of you and be considerate of you, which is itself a kind of. Intimate hints. It's not that girls should be able to stand loneliness, but that you should ask your family or husband for this comfort, not a strange man. Therefore, knowing this situation, he has to come to you to comfort you, or interact with you as your so-called friend. It's actually suggesting that you two still have the possibility of development. As you said, a modest gentleman should keep a very long distance from you the moment he knows that you have passed away. Even ordinary friends are distant ones.