1. Parents should learn to respect their children before their children can learn to respect others.

Most parents will interfere with many things of their children, always take care of them with the idea that I am good for you, and do everything according to their own ideas without considering the possible harm to them. Only when parents truly respect their children can children learn to respect others.

Parents should teach their children to solve their own problems, not help them solve them.

When children encounter difficulties, parents should help them analyze the problems in an orderly way and teach them the ways to solve the problems, instead of simply and rudely helping them solve the problems directly. Only by teaching children the consciousness and ability to solve problems can they help their independence and growth.

Parents should not criticize their children blindly. Proper encouragement can get twice the result with half the effort

In the process of children's growth, children's mistakes are inevitable, so parents can't always criticize their children. The educational model of using sticks has long been out of date. Now, more is to advocate tolerance, understanding, democracy and equality. Children's mistakes should be more to help him analyze and let him realize where he is wrong, rather than blindly criticizing and scolding. After children correct their mistakes, they can be given appropriate comfort and encouragement to prevent them from blaming themselves or even being afraid of making mistakes, which is beneficial to their growth.

Parents should set an example, and parents are the best role models for their children.

As a role model for children, all parents' actions will have a great influence on children, and the influence of parents on children is far greater than expected. Educating children is also a self-education process. Don't miss too much at the most essential stage of children. After all, children only grow up once, and if they miss it, they will never come back. Children who have always felt that they can grow up in a happy family atmosphere are very lucky. They have established their own knowledge of the world and looked forward to the future. Although we can't choose our parents, maybe we can be the "Xia Donghai" that children like.