The growth process of 0- 18-year-old children is divided into three different stages, and their needs for love are also different. Therefore, in these three different stages, parents need to play different roles and give their children different love. Below I have collected some methods about educating children by age, hoping to help you.

Educate children by age: 0-6 years old: love equals companionship 1, and shape intelligence.

The intelligence of 0-6 years old develops fastest, and 50% of the intelligence is formed before the age of 4. Cleverness lies not in the number of brain cells, but in the number of connections between brain cells. To some extent, the stimulation is more, and the brain neurons are thicker. Intelligence develops in a certain way.

2, the cultivation of emotion

The left brain is developed: logical thinking is strong, and the right brain is developed: creative thinking is strong, imagination is cultivated, and complete emotional cultivation will lead to complete personality performance: at this time, don't over-constrain the child, play with him and let him win (every time he wins, his confidence will increase). Cultivate his warmth.

3. Character cultivation

Establish a concept, distinguish between right and wrong (never do it after 6 years old), put education in the story, and be less reasonable. There is a saying: if you are used to being responsive, you will be arrogant and rude; If you are used to not asking for anything in return, you will feel inferior and negative. Children's self-confidence and self-esteem are the most important, and parents should pay attention to this.

Educate children by age: 6- 12 years old: love is equal to tutoring children to have a second world: school!

Entering the group society, he felt the power of the group, and praise or criticism played a role in suggesting education. Words and actions convey the message of love: love is the greatest motivation. If he can feel the sunshine and rain of love, the sapling will thrive. Therefore, the power of positive suggestion is very important: how you evaluate children, what children will become; So what kind of person do you want your child to be and how do you evaluate your child? Always convey positive thoughts, positive language and positive energy.

1, self-confidence cultivation

Be sure to follow your child's interests, not to make him famous and have a family. We should educate with the thumb, not the index finger. 65438+20000 must be completed before the age of 02. Praise must be timely, and face-to-face criticism must be relaxed and serious. Sandwich education can be quoted here: disadvantages lie in advantages, and criticism lies in hope (affirmation-but-belief). What's the matter? What's the matter? Get rid of your mistake once and you will get better and better.

2, habit formation

Pay attention to details and be honest with yourself through your own efforts.

3. Reward and punishment

Pay attention to his preferences and give him a reward when it is time, so that he will be moved by affirmation. Don't reprimand in public, protect his self-esteem. Even if your child does something wrong and makes you angry, you should separate things from love. If you make a mistake, you must criticize and punish, but punishment is not to vent your dissatisfaction, but to educate and care. Every kind of education is related to love.

Step 4 cultivate a sense of responsibility

Independence or dependence is cultivated, and you can do your own things, seriously and completely. Parents do it instead of him, but they can't replace it for a lifetime; Teach him to do it, and he can benefit for life.

5. Learn while playing

Interest is the best teacher. If you have fun, you can study hard.

Educate children by age: 12- 18 years old: love equals respect. Your child is on a self-centered road: I have grown up and demand equality. Therefore, talking to children should be like talking to friends.

1, parents and teachers

Don't take the teacher's words as imperial edict. Let the teacher look at the child with appreciation: where has the child improved? All the children are afraid of the teacher's criticism. It is important that children like teachers.

2. Academic achievements

Children's mental health is more important than academic performance. A temporary achievement cannot represent the success or failure of a lifetime, but a continuous growth can achieve a lifetime. Never let children feel guilty and guilty because of poor grades.

Step 3 give an idea

Become what kind of person? Become an upright person, a kind person, a person with a story, a person who contributes to the family, a person who contributes to the society and wins the respect of others. In the future, you can suffer from three things: when you give, when you contribute, and when you talk, you must be willing to eat.

4. Give the platform

Encourage going to the library and cultivate the habit of reading. Encourage participation in sports team activities. Encourage Wan Li Road on the premise of safety. Let children love life and participate in summer parent-child summer camp.

Step 5 set an example