Li Meng is three years old this year. He is handsome, cute and charming, but his relatives around him are very picky about him. At first, Li Meng's parents took him to the door, and everyone liked to tease him when they saw his lovely children. Later, it was discovered that Li Meng became taller every time he played ball, and his way of expressing happiness was very special, that is, "hitting people". Such small hands and heavy feet made the children who played with him cry. Did the adults survive? No, several adults who made him happy were also hurt by him, especially the one who had the most fun with him. Nevertheless, Li Meng is still young, and adults won't care about anything with him.
With the increase of times, everyone saw some clues. Li Meng's parents are reminded to educate their children. It's wrong to hit people. If they are not well educated, they will be dishonest. Li Meng's mother smiled and said to Li Meng, who was running and playing, "He likes it." . He will hit people when he is happy. Just say that finish, Li Meng rushed over and put her arms around her waist with a smile, but she didn't even frown, just "sighed" gently and watched the child run away happily with love. However, Li Meng's father was very helpless, saying that "it was useless several times". In fact, because Li Meng's mother is so indulgent, Li Meng can be changed.
Later, Li Meng went to primary school, and a few days later he was in trouble. It turned out that Meng Li and a classmate played games together and fought with each other while playing. That classmate is not Li Meng's parents or relatives, and he will tolerate Li Meng. Two people, one hurt his arm and the other hurt his eyes. The headmaster of Li Meng invited his parents to come to school to solve this problem, and then Li Meng's parents realized the seriousness of the problem. Parents are the children's first teachers, the children are not educated, and parents can't escape the responsibility of raising, which is reflected in the moral cultivation of behavior.
Li Meng's "beating" behavior is an uncivilized behavior, which is very rude and unbearable. In fact, if Li Meng started to express his happiness by hitting people, and his parents could intervene in time, Li Meng would not develop into a fight with his classmates. If it is not stopped now, the consequences will be more serious in the future.
First, the influence of parents' words and deeds.
This is a very common phenomenon. As the saying goes, what kind of parents make what kind of children. Parents are the parents of the bear, and the child is naturally Xiong Haizi. You know, children's imitation ability is very strong. If parents don't pay attention to their words and deeds and behave badly, then under the influence of words and deeds, children will behave badly in front of outsiders.
Second, parents' connivance and doting.
Children are rude and ill-bred because they didn't mean it at first. It's all because of the ignorance and curiosity in children's hearts. They learn from others and can't wait to take action to see how the power of these actions will affect others. If parents can give timely and correct guidance, children will develop in a positive direction. If parents choose to indulge and spoil their children's Xiong Haizi behavior, the children will keep making mistakes in the wrong direction of "uneducated".
Third, parents' wrong guidance.
Children have "rude behavior", and parents either beat and scold, which has no effect at all. The correct way is to tell the child clearly that his behavior is boring, and even if he scolds, it will make his mother angry. Let him know clearly that the consequences of doing so are very serious and can shield the child's "bad behavior."